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Wife Encourages Husband to sleep with her Cousin

 
sudden 2017-09-11 08:14:12 

i have this friend whose wife is encouraging him to have sex with her cousin. according to my friend his wife told him recently that her cousin would like to have sex with him and that she the wife doesnt mind becos the cousin has not been engaged in a meaningful relationship for a long time. the wife claims that it would strengthen their relationship and not hurt it as she and her cousin have talked about it and have come to an agreement re sharing

my friend who is a fairly open guy doesnt know how to take it. on one hand the cousin is pretty and smart but on the other hand he feels his wife is testing him. he notes however that his wife and the cousin are v close and in fact he meet them whilst they were lunching at a cafe together and at the time he wasnt sure which one he was interested in.

as it turned out his wife and him had more in common professionally whilst the cousin is an artist and a successful one.

my friend is in a quandry and doesnt know what to do.

 
Curtis 2017-09-11 08:22:27 

In reply to sudden

Go ahead and sleep with her. I mean tell your 'friend '.

 
Maispwi 2017-09-11 08:54:00 

In reply to sudden

You, sorry your friend will have to put up some resistance to the idea and if your wife, sorry the wife is really ok wid it she will arrange a threesome.

 
black 2017-09-11 09:05:46 

In reply to sudden

Your friend will know if his wife's cousin wants to give him some pussy or not, based on her interaction with him.

 
Drapsey 2017-09-11 09:17:13 

In reply to sudden

Just be careful you don't put another little one in the oven (cousin's oven), divorce #5 would be imminent.

 
RemainsUnknown 2017-09-11 09:22:43 

In reply to sudden

Wife Encourages Husband to sleep with her Cousin
I am in a quandry and don't know what to do.
The cunny-moon has wore off, I see.... lol lol

 
bravos 2017-09-11 09:24:03 

In reply to sudden

I see only positives,seriously I believe this is not too unreasonable,the wife is a real confident lady. Many ladies wouldn't mind this as long as they're calling the shots(or at least think they are)...and I'm talking wifey/wife here..

Personally I have a couple basic set rules to abide with and wifey's ok,"if you have to,don't let them sit in front seat of car ,stay out of our circles and wear protection" ..

Most women are realists,men are often the ones in denial..and I don't mean the entitled arrogant unreasonable 'I AM YOU WIFE,YOU ARE MY HUSBAND"!! TYPES...Props to that wife,congrats to the guy for having such a wife..

I'm sure your'e familiar with 'advanced search' online,well that is advanced relationship.

 
sgtdjones 2017-09-11 10:06:10 

Such relationships do not last.

 
DAVE400 2017-09-11 10:09:38 

In reply to sudden

Is there a possibility that one month down the road wife expects reciprocity?

 
bravos 2017-09-11 10:25:14 

In reply to sgtdjones

You would be surprised bro,real life is not what people try to project as real,these arrangements are more prevalent and necessary than you would imagine. Never judge anyone's relationship because you think yours is one of utmost esteem and values,in reality many people pretending to be living the perfect as seen on tv life but in reality they're tormented and conflicted....and even horning under low.

 
bravos 2017-09-11 10:26:43 

In reply to DAVE400

Nah Alpha is Alpha...it is a gift to the Alpha..

Recipro-who!? evil smile


But seriously some women see it as just a quick fix and not too bothered once you exercise discretion.

 
Headley 2017-09-11 10:32:09 

In reply to sudden

Viagra and cialis are your friends.

Take them both. Maybe even take them together. big grin

 
Oilah 2017-09-11 11:18:32 

Interesting "problem"...usually de man want de cousin but fraid because de wife would kill him if she find out. now he fraid cause tings being offered on a platter confused smile

 
pelon 2017-09-11 11:34:56 

In reply to DAVE400


Is there a possibility that one month down the road wife expects reciprocity?
Correct.

Strategically, she (the wife) has ALREADY given away the goods, her "gesture" is to deflate his ability to say he never stepped outside too.

we fickle men should know, we are no match for a woman with a puss-4-u-plan.

Sudden, tell your new wife you will pass... on THAT offer.

 
Headley 2017-09-11 11:46:30 

In reply to pelon

Sudden, tell your new wife you will pass... on THAT offer.



Was waiting for your input. big grin big grin big grin

 
Kay 2017-09-11 12:04:04 

In reply to DAVE400

Is there a possibility that one month down the road wife expects reciprocity?

Correct and what pelon said. The wife is already playing and she just needs a licence to continue with her trysts guilt free....smile

 
Walco 2017-09-11 12:25:57 

In reply to sudden

I had a similar predicament several years ago. This girlfriend told me she wanted me to do her best friend as a favor. At first I smelled a rat and thought I was being set up. So I convened a meeting with the girlfriend and the best friend and told them I would do no such thing under any circumstances. They both begged and pleaded and I was almost convinced. My answer was still no, not because I did not want to do it, but because I did not want to start my way down that slippery slope of an open relationship.

Anyway, I later learned that I was being horned by my girlfriend's best friend smile

 
Priapus 2017-09-11 12:31:41 

In reply to sudden

Just go ahead and sleep with your wife's cousin. Deal with the repercussions afterwards. lol lol

 
Headley 2017-09-11 12:33:40 

In reply to Walco

They were determined to share, with or without you.

As Pelon said.

Strategically, she (the wife) has ALREADY given away the goods, her "gesture" is to deflate his ability to say he never stepped outside too.

 
archangel 2017-09-11 12:36:00 

The fact that you even, I mean your cousin even suspect it may be a test is enough to make you realize that you shouldn't venture into this.
Most women who are into these kinds of relationship make it pretty clear early in a relationship that they go for this kind of thing.

 
black 2017-09-11 12:37:12 

Men get caught up in sexual harassment because they are relentlessly pursuing these women. I say it over and over again, if a woman wants to give you some pum pum, she will let you know, overtly or covertly.

The same applies to this situation.

 
Walco 2017-09-11 12:39:33 

In reply to Headley

That was my first and only experience with a bunna woman smile Well it's the only experience of which I am aware

 
nick2020 2017-09-11 13:31:57 

In reply to pelon

Sudden. Devin. Same person.

Devin once gave us a story about a love triangle. CC.com gold. Now sudden attempting the same.

 
Ninetenjack 2017-09-11 13:35:47 

In reply to sudden

Some good advice here from the other posters. But remember this, some really smart men is start thinking with their dicks when they really need to be more reflective when presented with clear and obvious trap.

 
powen001 2017-09-11 14:26:59 

In reply to pelon

Correct.

Strategically, she (the wife) has ALREADY given away the goods, her "gesture" is to deflate his ability to say he never stepped outside too.

we fickle men should know, we are no match for a woman with a puss-4-u-plan.

Sudden, tell your new wife you will pass... on THAT offer.


BEST ADVICE Hands down.

My advice would have ended there too without all of that hilarious stuff...and he knows the answer already...but by the time he read our posts hes probably already done the deed and will now reap the whirlwind that would make IRMA look like a belch. lol lol

 
imusic 2017-09-11 14:38:56 

Perhaps the cousin's name is Miss Palmer

 
sgtdjones 2017-09-11 15:57:00 

In reply to Headley


As Pelon said.
Strategically, she (the wife) has ALREADY given away the goods, her "gesture" is to deflate his ability to say he never stepped outside too.

Sudden, tell your new wife you will pass... on THAT offer.


He can always get another mail order bride

lol lol lol

 
Trinidave 2017-09-11 16:51:44 

In reply to sudden

How yuh wife cousin look?

 
sudden 2017-09-11 17:09:32 

i dont why everyone assumes that i am talking about myself.

anyhow my friend's wife's cousin is called Frantiska. she looks good and is quite liberal. she is 40, has no children but wants one and is not involved romantically at the moment.

 
black 2017-09-11 19:48:44 

In reply to sudden

she is 40, has no children but wants one and is not involved romantically at the moment.


Knock her up before it's too late. lol

 
Kay 2017-09-11 20:44:25 

In reply to black

smile

 
bravos 2017-09-11 21:52:32 

Because a woman llowin you don't mean she doing it for equalization or some conspiracy,some men have the goods and good measure on certain women so much so they'll llow him and even in this case facilitate him ..

Any one simply concluding that this is some conspiracy clearly never brought their significant other to multiple on multiple occasions,or any woman for that matter,a performing man has privileges that many can only dream of,how many of you have ever made your lady's pores raise from just a hug or touch?

Circumstances alter cases,allyuh fellas is some real good boys with wholesome good girls,hope ah doh read bout some ah allyuh,lol..

 
Toney 2017-09-11 23:20:48 

In reply to sudden

I smell a jinal at work here. Dat wife is either fucking someone else or planning to do so. So to clear her conscience she is allowing her hubby to have a lil fun as well. lol lol

 
steveo 2017-09-12 06:17:15 

In reply to sudden

Fcuk em all and fcuk em well. Be prepared to be horned soon, or discover you were being horned all along.

At least you will have some fun out of it.

 
pelon 2017-09-12 10:20:54 

In reply to bravos aka Don Juan

some men have the goods and good measure on certain women so much so they'll llow him ...
how many of you have ever made your lady's pores raise from just a hug or touch?

shock shock shock shock
TMI department
allyuh fellas is some real good boys

The only difference between "good men" and the rest is discretion.
The pool of men that remain faithful to one woman in a lifetime is very small and with little sign of life.... but we (including the women we love..
) all know this unspoken truth.

cool

 
bravos 2017-09-12 10:36:05 

In reply to pelon

Point is what may work for some may not for others,and as indecent as this proposal may be it cannot diminish the value of their relationship simply because it's different to others,their relationship may be more blissful and fulfilling than the Jones'.

And of course discretion trumps all,in all scenarios.

I'm not talking about swinging or threesomes here ok,my point is a a good woman can facilitate this simply to intrigue and gift the man,doesn't mean she's up to anything sinister on her part,doesn't mean she's less valuable.

 
pelon 2017-09-12 11:15:51 

In reply to bravos

indecent as this proposal may be
You know we seer enough of life... I simply call it a proposal.
what may work for some may not for others
EXACTLY, you might be able to pull it off... not Sudden
lol lol lol lol

 
bravos 2017-09-12 11:57:08 

In reply to pelon

Take win bro!! lol lol lol lol lol lol

 
Priapus 2017-09-12 12:15:54 

In reply to imusic

Actually the full names of the wife and her cousin are Pam Palmer and Pamela Palmer respectively. They love 'hanging out' together. lol lol

 
sudden 2017-09-12 12:30:07 

my friend is on cloud nine for the time being.

he informed me that since the proposal he delayed giving the wife an answer for a week. she asked again and he, the wife and the cousin (Frantiska) met to discuss the matter.

the cousin said that there was an initial attraction and it could have gone either. since then she has admired the relationship between her cousin and my friend

the wife acknowledged the above and said she shared bedroom secrets with her cousin and would not be at all jealous if my friend did the deed but suitable arrangements will have to be made ie no threesome and the wife comes first

my friend tells me that he has been assured and re assured that this arrangement is not becos the wife wants to, has cheated or wants to test his loyalty.

she just wants her cousin to be happy and experience the same outcomes as she has had.

my friend reports he has done the deed and things are going splendid. the cousin has taken up some of the slack since the wife is indisposed temporarily. there is no jealously as afar as he can detect and they discuss and work out intimate matters amicably.

the only thing weighing on my friend's mind is that the cousin wants to get pregnant

 
openning 2017-09-12 12:46:10 

In reply to sudden
I would not be tempted by my wife's suggestion, it will come back to haunt you

Threesomes are good.

 
bravos 2017-09-12 12:55:25 

In reply to openning

Something about threesomes I don't like,maybe the cross contamination risk,I prefer to do the work one by one,but probably wouldn't have backed out of a spontaneous situation if other parties looked the part.

Have been present when things nearly erupted to full blown orgies in the past,but stuck to one willing partner and then turned to another a lil time after in a private nook,but it's something I have been offered couple times in the past but didn't like the feeling of it being planned and scheduled,so much so that I slacked off the lil friends,it's a whole other set of risk with such characters who used to double dipping..

 
Trinidave 2017-09-12 13:08:23 

In reply to sudden

anyhow my friend's wife's cousin is called Frantiska. she looks good and is quite liberal. she is 40, has no children but wants one and is not involved romantically at the moment.


The standard rule is if she has nice tatas... ...you're duty-bound tuh give it ah brush.

However, you must understand, dat de wifey settin yuh up right?

 
powen001 2017-09-12 13:16:17 

In reply to pelon

EXACTLY, you might be able to pull it off... not Sudden
lol lol lol lol



Instant Dead Man Drop!! lol lol lol lol

 
powen001 2017-09-12 13:18:31 

In reply to sudden

the wife acknowledged the above and said she shared bedroom secrets with her cousin and would not be at all jealous if my friend did the deed but suitable arrangements will have to be made ie no threesome and the wife comes first


ALARMS GONE OFF!!

NO ENTRY SIGNS ERECTED ( pardon the double pun) big grin


This is simply about LUST...and walking a dangerous tight rope.

 
Drapsey 2017-09-12 13:19:24 

In reply to sudden

my friend reports he has done the deed and things are going splendid. the cousin has taken up some of the slack since the wife is indisposed temporarily. there is no jealously as afar as he can detect and they discuss and work out intimate matters amicably.

the only thing weighing on my friend's mind is that the cousin wants to get pregnant

You've been sincerely warned since my first post on the thread. Careful with the risk of too much bread in the oven.

 
powen001 2017-09-12 13:20:02 

In reply to sudden

for the record..

this is the most piffle of ble-shyt I have seen you post in a while.

especially that so called "follow up report" from your "friend".

 
pelon 2017-09-12 13:39:09 

In reply to powen001

this is the most piffle of ble-shyt I have seen you post in a while.
yuh got that right... the "follow up" the next day... reads like a $3 D-List romance novel, I much prefer his "Tolduso" pseudonym than his "Danielle Steel" experiments.

 
jen 2017-09-12 13:40:04 

Like you all forget sudden is the best story teller on CC.com ah what?

 
sudden 2017-09-12 13:58:12 

about 6-7 months have elapsed between my friend's wife proposal and my first posting on this matter

i only wanted to hear the reaction from posters and see how they contrasted with what my friend did.

BTW I advised my friend not to do it but knowing the persons involved perhaps i understand why

 
Dan_De_Lyan 2017-09-12 14:18:11 

He should have gone for a three some.

I had to refuse a threesome.

I cant get into a threesome with 2 guys and me.... :lolsadcrd. ron white)

 
Priapus 2017-09-12 14:33:18 

In reply to Dan_De_Lyan

I cant get into a threesome with 2 guys and me


shock I certainly hope not.

 
Dan_De_Lyan 2017-09-12 14:36:19 

In reply to Priapus

I credited Ron white for that joke...

Homie dont play like that....


That was funny from RW

 
Priapus 2017-09-12 14:37:14 

In reply to Dan_De_Lyan

lol lol

 
RemainsUnknown 2017-09-12 15:01:20 

In reply to sudden

Good luck on your 6th marriage.... you don't seem to learn... you live for punishment.... hahaha lol

 
Headley 2017-09-12 15:55:48 

In reply to jen

Like you all forget sudden is the best story teller on CC.com ah what?



So true. If he was prepared to do the work he could make millions from creative writing. big grin

 
ProWI 2017-09-12 17:04:29 

In reply to sudden

What's Up? Are you Aunt Sudden, being asked to give advice on personal relationships?

Go ahead, we are awaiting your advice.

 
DukeStreet 2017-09-12 20:51:56 

In reply to sudden
Nice story but I am not buying it.

like someone said, Devin had a similar story years ago.

lol lol