Justice Kennedy:
The judgment of the Court of Appeals for the Sixth Circuit is reversed. It is so ordered."
_ryan
Justice Kennedy:
Marriage is not needed for love. Marriage is not needed for a lifetime partnership.
Marriage is needed for FAMILY, an institution to nurture and raise the next generation. Thats its purpose in our civilization.
I want to see a same sex couple CREATE a family. I know, I know they will adopt. I want to see the next generation of fcuked-in-the-heads that were raised by two dads.
In reply to steveo
In reply to steveo
I dont get that.
As much as my own upbringing makes it difficult for me to normalise gay couples without getting rid of a heap of stereotypes, doesnt the amount of fcucked up children in this world from so called normal couples make you pause for thought ?
There are enough kids in this world who need people to love and take care of them right now.
Steveo...I see your point. I wonder when it comes to role models...how does a girl react when she has two men as parents?
And children they always have a favorite parent, mom or dad....how does the child negotiate this?
I am all for choice....anyone can do as they please, however there is a consequence that is unforeseen in this case.
In reply to runout
In reply to Admin
In reply to runout
I was in the park once on a nice Summer day, two young couples in their early 20's, one of the men was beating his wife/girlfriend in the stomach in the face like you would beat another man. The beating stopped and they continued eating their picnic lunch, all of a sudden the beating started again, for no reason and it was even worse this time if it could be worse, didn't have a cell with me so I couldn't call the cops. It struck me that the other couple never tried to stop the beating and carried on like it was normal.
Lesson of the day, people could be conditioned to accept ANYTHING and right or wrong, it soon becomes normal to all.
In reply to runout
In reply to Admin
Dude...let your head explode ifi it have to...what stupidity did I post? Can't you agree to disagree, or are you too dense to entertain an opposing view?
It is folks like you who feels compelled to dictate to others, who wants inclusivity, but then like a rabid bi-polar lunatic becomes intolerant in a nano second.
Carry on...I don't need to have the likes of you dictating my princples in life.
To each his/her own. A decision that was long overdue! Proud of my peeps.
Kudos to SCOTUS
Love is love...does not know color, religion, sex etc etc
In reply to ray
The same can be said for every human emotion/condition, no?
Live and let live. Whatever works for you, do it, without bringing harm to others.
The problem with westindian people is that they keep looking at this issue as one of sexuality, happy to admit I was one such person, but my thinking has evolved. When you start to look at this as a civil rights issue on par with what black people fought for in the 60s then it starts to become a whole lot clearer.
In reply to Ninetenjack
You, sir, are a mensch. You've hit the nail on the head.
_ryan
In reply to Ninetenjack
I went to the UK as a 17 year old and a year later I was in University.I had never been exposed to gays or lesbians but after a few years I realized that they were not different in any significant way.
The problem is that many West Indians when they see a gay or Lesbian can not get past thinking about them having sex when in fact they are having sex less than 1% of the time.
When I look at Ellen I am not imaging her making love to a woman I am too busy laughing at her jokes and admiring her generosity of spirit.
I see some Guyanese come to Brooklyn in their twenties and thirty years later they are still living like they are back in Guyana.Drinking rum every Friday and Saturday night.Eating black pudding and souse every weekend and all their friends are Guyanese.They refuse to travel anywhere except go back to Guyana and take absolutely no interest in American life and politics.
In other words THEY DO NOT EVOLVE.
In reply to Dukes
In reply to Dukes
True story Dukes. I know a lot of them in Queens as well
In reply to Dukes
That point u make about the sex is often a thought i have had myself. And when i have spoken to ppl who uncomfortable with 2 male hays i have ofyen said "just forget the sex".
And all the men who like to get off on 2 women getting it on, then turnaround and condemn lesbianism..not right.
I am thankful that i was around dancers and models who were gay from i was a child. They were to me...regular people. And lemme tell u that as a heterosexual woman..it is hilarious to be around a group of gay men. And when u hear them criticize their own...the ones they call fairies, it is fall down funny...pardon my pun
Dont hate. The science has shown that genes also have a part to play in homosexuality too.
In reply to steveo
Well said, fully endorsed
Am all for equal rights but some things are better left alone and for the creator to decide.
As a civil issue the Court ruled correctly, religiouswise there will be pros and cons depends on the religion etc etc
In reply to Runs
Anything that upsets religion is alright by me. Imagine god telling alyuh to hate another human being. God does make alyuh do some ungodly things.
_r
In reply to Admin
Saying "alyuh"is painting with a broad brush, pretty asinine if you ask me, how can you blame the whole because of a few? No religion teaches hatred my friend, human beings do. How about your religion or atheist views? What makes you think that you are righteous and of higher moral standing as compared to religious people?
In reply to Runs
In reply to Admin
Maybe you need to get some common sense about common sense. Because nothing common about your agenda.
the reason there is male and female organs are for procreation. the reason man is are attracted to woman is for the continuity of life and the species.
Common sense says love and intimacy go hand in hand with procreation and survival.
There's a reason why we have taste buds. Yet there are many who eat things that should never go into the body.
In reply to Ayenmol
What does marriage have to do with procreation?
In reply to Admin
Seems as if you do not possess such, what a lame response.
Why are you quick to label others if they have a different view from yours?
Thank god for living in a free country where one can express their own views and opinions without fear of being blacklisted.
America is great.
In reply to conman
We can debate that from a civil or religious viewpoint. What is good about this is as American citizens it is their civil right to do so as they can now claim benefits such as health care, taxes etc that they could not do before. It was a 5-4 decision so one can see some of the Justices were split and I am thinking they had a hard time between the Church and State issue. I am now reading up on it will opine when I get all the facts. Religionwise, you will get procreation arguments, theology doctrine, etc etc and so on and so forth.
Link Text
Now you close minded fellas read about religious tolerance
marriage is more business than love,you don't need laws to protect love!
The U.S. Is pushing gay agenda because of the urgent need for population control, they will never do something overt like China and limit u to one child. That's the real reason, civil rights is just the facade.
I don't understand why gay people need to be "married ", how about a "gay-union " with the same tax breaks etc.
In reply to steveo
Hmmm
In reply to camos
True and when partnerships go bad file for bankruptcy and dissolve the company er union er marriage
In reply to steveo
I think the civil union concept was exposed as a 'separate but equal' thing so wasn't satisfactory for same-sex couples.
Now one thing that hasn't been proposed is for government to do away with marriage altogether, let churches do what they want and only be in the business of civil unions for all couples that wish it... of course that could just lead to oddles of red tape.
In reply to runout
In reply to black
Tomorrow the millenials will though, we can say now that they have the folly of youth. When they look around and see all the societal ills they will sober up quickly
There is a reason certain great civilizations went extinct. One need to look back at history and not repeat the same mistakes as they did.
In reply to black
The don't care externally, but under the surface there are things taking place that will be with them for a long time.
In reply to Admin
Speaking of that uncommon fellow, Common Sense, BBC World Service recently read the following:
Today we mourn the passing of a beloved old friend, Common Sense, who has been with us for many years. No one knows for sure how old he was, since his birth records were long ago lost in bureaucratic red tape.
He will be remembered as having cultivated such valuable lessons as:
Knowing when to come in out of the rain; why the early bird gets the worm:
Life isnt always fair, and maybe it was my fault.
Common sense lived by simple, sound financial policies (dont spend more than you can earn) and reliable strategies (adults are in charge not children)
His health began to deteriorate rapidly when well-intentioned but overbearing regulations were set in place. Reports of an 8 year old boy charged with sexual harassment for kissing a classmate, teens suspended from school for using mouthwash after lunch, and a teacher fired for reprimanding an unruly student, only worsened his condition.
Common sense lost ground when parents attacked teachers for doing the job they themselves had failed to do in disciplining their unruly children. It declined even further when schools were required to get parental consent to administer sun lotion or an aspirin to a student, but could not inform parents when a student became pregnant and wanted to have an abortion.
Common sense lost the will to live as the churches became businesses, and criminals received better treatment than their victims.
Common sense took a beating when you couldnt defend yourself from a burglar in your own home and the burglar could sue you for assault.
Common sense finally gave up the will to live, after a woman failed to realize that a steaming cup of coffee was hot. She spilled a little in her lap, and was promptly awarded a huge settlement.
Common sense was preceded in death, by his parents, Truth and Trust
His wife, Discretion
His daughter, Responsibility
His son, Reason.
He is survived by his 4 stepbrothers
I Know My Rights
I Want My Rights
I Want It Now
Im A Victim.
Not many attended his funeral because so few realized he was gone.
In reply to Runs
In reply to black
In reply to Runs
In reply to steveo
You really think gays marrying is driving YOUR society down ?
In reply to steveo
In reply to black
In reply to Commie
In reply to steveo
In reply to Tryangle
In reply to steveo
Is a 10 year old a legal consenting adult?
Do Donkeys have the same rights as humans?
In reply to JOJO
In reply to steveo
I asked a straight question.
How can gays marrying in the US hinder your society?
Guyana has some of the highest migration rates in the world anyway, and many of these ppl migrate to the US to that gay friendly society and then subsist their ppl at home who are not gay friendly..much like my own country.
What exactly is the problem?
In reply to black
The U.S is not the first to legalize gay marriage.
In reply to Commie
In reply to steveo
In reply to steveo
Men married children routinely as part of royal unions and it was termed marriage.
People are married every day and live in shambolic situations with little or no love or respect in what passes as a home without disgust for the so called institution.
Look..im no more coded to automatically be comfortable with this but this is as much social conditioning as anything else.
Society won't fall apart and the sky won't fall in.
In reply to Dukes
In reply to Runs
In reply to steveo
In reply to Dukes
Because gays previously were bashed, in Guyana and around the world. Thats not the case anymore.
Dude am I coming across like a dancehall singer? I am not bashing gays or advocating that.
In reply to steveo
Dude, like you new to the scene these guys obfuscate and steer conversations to their liking. Holla pun he and put he back on course, ADHD like um kickin in
In reply to Runs
In reply to steveo
Granger is a good man eh
In reply to JOJO
Then what's next approval of incest by 2 consenting adults? Polygamy? Where do we draw the line?
In reply to Runs
You guys keep coming up with outrageous examples to make your arguments
In reply to black
May seem outrageous today, take this ruling 10 years back and we can say the same.
Will follow this closely
In reply to Runs
In reply to Runs
Is Sharia law ok with you?
In reply to conman
He might agree with that
In reply to conman
In reply to black
I live in the USA last time I checked it was not a muslim country so that is not applicable. Next question
In reply to Runs
So you don't have an opinion on it?
You seem to have opinions on everything else
In reply to black
Sharia law is applied in muslim countries. What don't you get? Hello anyone home up there?
Link Text
Hmm
the eagle is on it's descent.....
I do not hate gay people. They are just people. However this lifestyle is an aversion of morality. I believe in a Creator whop created man with a purpose. That of filling the Earth with Perfect Humankind under God's righteous rule. Satan placed himself in opposition to the Creator. Deceiving the Couple, a man and a woman, to seek their selfish longing, apptly telling them that they, by eating the fruit, would be JUST like God knowing good and bad.
This is just a continuation of that myth. That man can choose for himself. That he can break away from God's purpose and continue to seek his own selfish longing. There are those who will seek to paint this with a brush of wisdom. Yet it is a perversion. Not something Natural. Not accomplishing any purpose other than selfish desire spurred on by the Ruler of this World who wants nothing more than to continue to thwart God's righteous standards and take man with him into everlasting cutting of. He is at the end of his rope. Not unlike all the murder suicides we see today, he knows he is going down and he is willing to take the majority with him.
Everything we enjoy today has a beginning. Every creation, invention is protected by law. The owner has a right to set parameters for the use of their property. Even after that which WAS their property, made solely for sale is sold. They still have a right to say how it can be used.
Even this website. Nothing it would be without the people who choose to come here and make it relevant, has rules in place governing it's use. In fact if you were to do something deemed by the proprietors as forbidden? whether you read the rules or not they would render judgement.
And rightly so.
Yet we speak of Common sense.
We speak of love.
How many times a day do we avoid decisions that are within our right to make out of love for our kids. Our spouse. Our neighbor. Our workmates.
Where is our love for our God. Our respect for his Creation. Instead we claim he does not exist so we can keep on satisfying our every will and desire.
In reply to Yamfoot
In reply to Ayenmol
In reply to hotarobin
That is because democracy is new to them, they bring their third world baggage. It may work for them there, but in a free and democratic society, we are all entitled to our own opinions and viewpoints, which we can share, without fear of harm or other repercussions. Well, he can ban you, but then having posters with the same views and exhibiting a dislike for healthy debate with different viewpoints will make the MB boring, and so much poorer.
He can lambast and label all he wants, classless.
In reply to Ayenmol
Your slave masters would be so proud of you
In reply to Admin
In reply to Halliwell
Yup. Google it.
In reply to powen001
In reply to Halliwell
Now you can tell people "it's all in the genes"
In reply to powen001
He does not hate sin he hates the people. Have u paid attention to what is a sin in the bible? From shrimp to mixed fabric clothing. But he chooses to hate poeple
In reply to conman
Yes I have...and I know the difference between establishing a law to going beyond the Law to establishing the GRACE, embodied by Jesus Christ.
Do you know the difference?
In reply to powen001
What if short people were not allowed to get married?
In reply to powen001
No. Enlighten me
In reply to black
In reply to hotarobin
How are little boys and girls consenting adults?
In reply to conman
at the risk of getting into vain disputations-
Old Testament...establishing a system to test obedience.
New Testament- Grace...goes way beyond observing the Law-
case in point-
Homosexuality is frowned upon and considered an abomination by Gods word -
Grace says to Love God above all else and to LOVE EACH OTHER- those last two surpass the laws of the Old Testament.
I dont want to derail the thread but it should be about love....
I mean...many guys on here into porn and multiple partners etc...those are sins too...and are not smaller or bigger than the homosexual act...and yet those persons find Grace with God.
I see those so inclined and attracted to one another as not being excluded from His Love or forgiveness.
As much as I consider myself saved...I am still attracted to other women..its my flesh...keeping it real.
Of course...you can chose to not be a believer and do what you want when and how and with whomever..
In reply to powen001
In reply to powen001
How do u know this?
In reply to conman
Faith -
strong belief in God or in the doctrines of a religion, based on spiritual apprehension rather than proof.
In reply to conman
Its in the word- The Bible.
The Holy Spirit is my coach and His word confirms it.
My faith grows based on personal experiences and His word confirms it...the visions I get, the blessings on my life...and His word confirms it.
I can point you to specific scripture...just say.
In reply to powen001
In reply to Admin
In reply to conman
really?
Have you ever read the Bible?
I am serious... i mean for yourself...not stories you heard or even from a Pastor..I am talking about you...actively and intentionally picking it up and reading it for yourself.
In reply to powen001
Is there a reason to?
West Indian people "Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery....". What makes humans stronger is our ability to make mistakes, learn from them and evolve stronger and wiser.
Question for you guys, which countries in the world are more economically advanced secular countries or the ones rooted and trapped in the mind boggling grip of religion?
If you flying in a plane are you thinking that the pilot is somewhat less competent because he or she is gay? Or if you are going under the knife that the surgeon is going to make a mistake because he is married to a man?
Link Text
An opinion from a gay person
In reply to Ninetenjack
Its one of the ironies of life.
The best places to live are usually the most tolerant and hence even the intolerant want to be there.
In reply to conman
In reply to powen001
Then that logic should follow for other religions too right?
To understand somebody's moral gripe we need to read what their version of morality is saying.
Or we could ignore them because their grips are none of you or anybody else's concern. Its just some moral dilemma they are going though
In reply to Commie
In reply to Ayenmol
In reply to Halliwell
I was about to ask Yammie about the science that used to say that black people are genetically unintelligent...or something so.
What about dem sweet science deh?
Perfect opportunity for others here and beyond to come out the closet now,though I am no supporter of your choice of private lifestyle but I hold no animosity toward you or your loved ones.
Continue to be Gay and proud,to each his own.
In reply to Dukes
In reply to Dukes
Am well aware. Notice that the Scriptures foretold this.....
In reply to Ayenmol
Christianity and the Bible are carefully constructed hoaxes
In reply to black
By whom?
In reply to Ayenmol
Ever wonder why jesus is pictured as white?
In reply to Ayenmol
Ah bunch of white men
In reply to JahJah
All I got was 'google it'
If you google "goat in washing machine" I am sure you'll see a pic of a goat in a washing machine
I am a scientist
I look for real evidence to back up an earthly claim
As far as I know there is NO gene or QTL coding for homosexuality/heterosexuality/bisexuality. But I am always willing to be shown new evidence.
In reply to black
When?
In reply to Ayenmol
In reply to Admin
In reply to conman
You can question also where we learn that blackness is evil. There is no description of Jesus as any color while on earth. Moses wife was an Ethiopian woman and his sister was punished for being bias towards her. The pictures u see are a figment of Roman Catholic/Italian imagination ordained by a pope who once was Emperor. Jesus was as plain indistinguishable man hence the need for some one to point him out a la so called betrayal - he didnt stand out!
I once heard a catholic priest state that all religions came out of the catholic church and not that Catholic religion cane about as a deal between some Christians and Rome so the slaughtering could stop. Religion is not god and God is not religion. Religion is s divisive man made practice.
In reply to Scar
Link Text
This is some messed up stuff
In reply to Runs
If we lived in a world without bigots, maybe people would be freer and more comfortable to come out and just live their lives. Instead, because of people like you, we have this shit happening.
Here's a better read on this issue:
http://www.nytimes.com/2003/08/03/magazine/double-lives-on-the-down-low.html?pagewanted=all
In reply to Admin
You are an ass and remain a dunce. That is a BBC article by the way dumbo. Why the outburst and personal attack?
Regards.
In reply to Runs
In reply to Runs
The man is clearly a homosexual activist and believe his opinions are some kind of final moral endorsement.
Homosexuality is clearly a condition..it is and no one can dispute that,what a big man doing taking a big cock up his arse? How the fck could that be soooo great or so right? Fck that way of life,it stinks and their rectum must pay an unnatural price..
But hey KY inc. gotta make money..
In reply to conman
Correct and I often make that point,this God thing stinks of man ego and thinking clearly as old as the story itself.
How could men in touch with the creator of all this not know that the Earth was not flat,how come they knew not of Lands in the 'new world'?
Israel this and Israel that,don't wanna hear anything about that forsaken place,yeh certain aspects of it could be a great moral guide,but people gotta wake up..
The whole thing was simply the new world order at the time,meant to instil conscience and fear as a means of controlling masses and conquests..simple.
In reply to bravos
Not clear exactly what you are trying to say bug if it's that the Bible should have told man scientific facts, well the bible is not a book of Science. The Bible is God's manual to us to help us draw close to him. Get to know him and live a life that is pleasing to him.
However consider these facts;
In reply to Ayenmol
You ah Jehovah Witness?
Not noted in the above articles is this other gem written 200 years before Greek philosophers begun reasoning about the shape of our planet...
In reply to black
You know of any other people who freely use God's name?
You made an accusation rooted in ignorance. I have showed from the Bible your folly....and your response is what? Misdirection?
In reply to Ayenmol
Don't come knocking on my door, please!
In reply to black
Nice to see you ignore the refute of your nonsensical statement above.
How sad that so many continue to dismiss the Bible because they are not aware of so many accuracies that are in the Bible that cannot be found anywhere else.
No mention yet o c the many prophecies in the Bible that came true which have been proven by Science.
Yet the masses continue to believe the hacks who spread inaccuracies while claiming it is those who believe in Bible truths who are brain washed.
In reply to googly1961
Very well said. We no longer have common sense. I really wonder how 'great' evolution is lol. I lived in the UK for many years but left with my kids because the country gradually became too 'righteous' and I saw too many situations where the offender was better treated than the victim. Crazy. I will keep my kids in the 'backward' Caribbean..........just my choice
Have you ever watched 'The Gods Must Be Crazy'? The narrator had a few very wise words to say at the start of the movie. We have become so advanced that life has become ultra complicated when it should become easier.
In reply to bravos
I here deading wid laugh lol
One word for a man ridin annoda man.... NASTY!!!
Alyuh can debate and support and be self righteous on dis one all alyuh want...
Quick question, have any countries in the West Indies repealed the buggery law? I'd imagine it's still a long way from legalizing same-sex marriage, if that law (which, isn't even a anti-gay law as straight people can have anal sex) is still on the books down in the region.