i have this friend whose wife is encouraging him to have sex with her cousin. according to my friend his wife told him recently that her cousin would like to have sex with him and that she the wife doesnt mind becos the cousin has not been engaged in a meaningful relationship for a long time. the wife claims that it would strengthen their relationship and not hurt it as she and her cousin have talked about it and have come to an agreement re sharing
my friend who is a fairly open guy doesnt know how to take it. on one hand the cousin is pretty and smart but on the other hand he feels his wife is testing him. he notes however that his wife and the cousin are v close and in fact he meet them whilst they were lunching at a cafe together and at the time he wasnt sure which one he was interested in.
as it turned out his wife and him had more in common professionally whilst the cousin is an artist and a successful one.
my friend is in a quandry and doesnt know what to do.
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Wife Encourages Husband to sleep with her Cousin
In reply to sudden
Go ahead and sleep with her. I mean tell your 'friend '.
In reply to sudden
You, sorry your friend will have to put up some resistance to the idea and if your wife, sorry the wife is really ok wid it she will arrange a threesome.
In reply to sudden
Your friend will know if his wife's cousin wants to give him some pussy or not, based on her interaction with him.
In reply to sudden
Just be careful you don't put another little one in the oven (cousin's oven), divorce #5 would be imminent.
In reply to sudden
I am in a quandry and don't know what to do.
In reply to sudden
I see only positives,seriously I believe this is not too unreasonable,the wife is a real confident lady. Many ladies wouldn't mind this as long as they're calling the shots(or at least think they are)...and I'm talking wifey/wife here..
Personally I have a couple basic set rules to abide with and wifey's ok,"if you have to,don't let them sit in front seat of car ,stay out of our circles and wear protection" ..
Most women are realists,men are often the ones in denial..and I don't mean the entitled arrogant unreasonable 'I AM YOU WIFE,YOU ARE MY HUSBAND"!! TYPES...Props to that wife,congrats to the guy for having such a wife..
I'm sure your'e familiar with 'advanced search' online,well that is advanced relationship.
Such relationships do not last.
In reply to sudden
Is there a possibility that one month down the road wife expects reciprocity?
In reply to sgtdjones
You would be surprised bro,real life is not what people try to project as real,these arrangements are more prevalent and necessary than you would imagine. Never judge anyone's relationship because you think yours is one of utmost esteem and values,in reality many people pretending to be living the perfect as seen on tv life but in reality they're tormented and conflicted....and even horning under low.
In reply to DAVE400
Nah Alpha is Alpha...it is a gift to the Alpha..
Recipro-who!?
But seriously some women see it as just a quick fix and not too bothered once you exercise discretion.
In reply to sudden
Viagra and cialis are your friends.
Take them both. Maybe even take them together.
Interesting "problem"...usually de man want de cousin but fraid because de wife would kill him if she find out. now he fraid cause tings being offered on a platter
In reply to DAVE400
Is there a possibility that one month down the road wife expects reciprocity?
Strategically, she (the wife) has ALREADY given away the goods, her "gesture" is to deflate his ability to say he never stepped outside too.
we fickle men should know, we are no match for a woman with a puss-4-u-plan.
Sudden, tell your new wife you will pass... on THAT offer.
In reply to pelon
Was waiting for your input.
In reply to DAVE400
Correct and what pelon said. The wife is already playing and she just needs a licence to continue with her trysts guilt free....
In reply to sudden
I had a similar predicament several years ago. This girlfriend told me she wanted me to do her best friend as a favor. At first I smelled a rat and thought I was being set up. So I convened a meeting with the girlfriend and the best friend and told them I would do no such thing under any circumstances. They both begged and pleaded and I was almost convinced. My answer was still no, not because I did not want to do it, but because I did not want to start my way down that slippery slope of an open relationship.
Anyway, I later learned that I was being horned by my girlfriend's best friend
In reply to sudden
Just go ahead and sleep with your wife's cousin. Deal with the repercussions afterwards.
In reply to Walco
They were determined to share, with or without you.
As Pelon said.
The fact that you even, I mean your cousin even suspect it may be a test is enough to make you realize that you shouldn't venture into this.
Most women who are into these kinds of relationship make it pretty clear early in a relationship that they go for this kind of thing.
Men get caught up in sexual harassment because they are relentlessly pursuing these women. I say it over and over again, if a woman wants to give you some pum pum, she will let you know, overtly or covertly.
The same applies to this situation.
In reply to Headley
That was my first and only experience with a bunna woman Well it's the only experience of which I am aware
In reply to pelon
Sudden. Devin. Same person.
Devin once gave us a story about a love triangle. CC.com gold. Now sudden attempting the same.
In reply to sudden
Some good advice here from the other posters. But remember this, some really smart men is start thinking with their dicks when they really need to be more reflective when presented with clear and obvious trap.
In reply to pelon
Strategically, she (the wife) has ALREADY given away the goods, her "gesture" is to deflate his ability to say he never stepped outside too.
we fickle men should know, we are no match for a woman with a puss-4-u-plan.
Sudden, tell your new wife you will pass... on THAT offer.
BEST ADVICE Hands down.
My advice would have ended there too without all of that hilarious stuff...and he knows the answer already...but by the time he read our posts hes probably already done the deed and will now reap the whirlwind that would make IRMA look like a belch.
Perhaps the cousin's name is Miss Palmer
In reply to Headley
Strategically, she (the wife) has ALREADY given away the goods, her "gesture" is to deflate his ability to say he never stepped outside too.
Sudden, tell your new wife you will pass... on THAT offer.
He can always get another mail order bride
In reply to sudden
How yuh wife cousin look?
i dont why everyone assumes that i am talking about myself.
anyhow my friend's wife's cousin is called Frantiska. she looks good and is quite liberal. she is 40, has no children but wants one and is not involved romantically at the moment.
In reply to sudden
Knock her up before it's too late.
In reply to black
Because a woman llowin you don't mean she doing it for equalization or some conspiracy,some men have the goods and good measure on certain women so much so they'll llow him and even in this case facilitate him ..
Any one simply concluding that this is some conspiracy clearly never brought their significant other to multiple on multiple occasions,or any woman for that matter,a performing man has privileges that many can only dream of,how many of you have ever made your lady's pores raise from just a hug or touch?
Circumstances alter cases,allyuh fellas is some real good boys with wholesome good girls,hope ah doh read bout some ah allyuh,lol..
In reply to sudden
I smell a jinal at work here. Dat wife is either fucking someone else or planning to do so. So to clear her conscience she is allowing her hubby to have a lil fun as well.
In reply to sudden
Fcuk em all and fcuk em well. Be prepared to be horned soon, or discover you were being horned all along.
At least you will have some fun out of it.
In reply to bravos aka Don Juan
how many of you have ever made your lady's pores raise from just a hug or touch?
TMI department
The only difference between "good men" and the rest is discretion.
The pool of men that remain faithful to one woman in a lifetime is very small and with little sign of life.... but we (including the women we love..
) all know this unspoken truth.
In reply to pelon
Point is what may work for some may not for others,and as indecent as this proposal may be it cannot diminish the value of their relationship simply because it's different to others,their relationship may be more blissful and fulfilling than the Jones'.
And of course discretion trumps all,in all scenarios.
I'm not talking about swinging or threesomes here ok,my point is a a good woman can facilitate this simply to intrigue and gift the man,doesn't mean she's up to anything sinister on her part,doesn't mean she's less valuable.
In reply to bravos
In reply to pelon
Take win bro!!
In reply to imusic
Actually the full names of the wife and her cousin are Pam Palmer and Pamela Palmer respectively. They love 'hanging out' together.
my friend is on cloud nine for the time being.
he informed me that since the proposal he delayed giving the wife an answer for a week. she asked again and he, the wife and the cousin (Frantiska) met to discuss the matter.
the cousin said that there was an initial attraction and it could have gone either. since then she has admired the relationship between her cousin and my friend
the wife acknowledged the above and said she shared bedroom secrets with her cousin and would not be at all jealous if my friend did the deed but suitable arrangements will have to be made ie no threesome and the wife comes first
my friend tells me that he has been assured and re assured that this arrangement is not becos the wife wants to, has cheated or wants to test his loyalty.
she just wants her cousin to be happy and experience the same outcomes as she has had.
my friend reports he has done the deed and things are going splendid. the cousin has taken up some of the slack since the wife is indisposed temporarily. there is no jealously as afar as he can detect and they discuss and work out intimate matters amicably.
the only thing weighing on my friend's mind is that the cousin wants to get pregnant
In reply to sudden
I would not be tempted by my wife's suggestion, it will come back to haunt you
Threesomes are good.
In reply to openning
Something about threesomes I don't like,maybe the cross contamination risk,I prefer to do the work one by one,but probably wouldn't have backed out of a spontaneous situation if other parties looked the part.
Have been present when things nearly erupted to full blown orgies in the past,but stuck to one willing partner and then turned to another a lil time after in a private nook,but it's something I have been offered couple times in the past but didn't like the feeling of it being planned and scheduled,so much so that I slacked off the lil friends,it's a whole other set of risk with such characters who used to double dipping..
In reply to sudden
The standard rule is if she has nice tatas... ...you're duty-bound tuh give it ah brush.
However, you must understand, dat de wifey settin yuh up right?
In reply to pelon
lol lol lol lol
Instant Dead Man Drop!!
In reply to sudden
ALARMS GONE OFF!!
NO ENTRY SIGNS ERECTED ( pardon the double pun)
This is simply about LUST...and walking a dangerous tight rope.
In reply to sudden
the only thing weighing on my friend's mind is that the cousin wants to get pregnant
You've been sincerely warned since my first post on the thread. Careful with the risk of too much bread in the oven.
In reply to sudden
for the record..
this is the most piffle of ble-shyt I have seen you post in a while.
especially that so called "follow up report" from your "friend".
In reply to powen001
Like you all forget sudden is the best story teller on CC.com ah what?
about 6-7 months have elapsed between my friend's wife proposal and my first posting on this matter
i only wanted to hear the reaction from posters and see how they contrasted with what my friend did.
BTW I advised my friend not to do it but knowing the persons involved perhaps i understand why
He should have gone for a three some.
I had to refuse a threesome.
I cant get into a threesome with 2 guys and me.... :lolcrd. ron white)
In reply to Dan_De_Lyan
I certainly hope not.
In reply to Priapus
I credited Ron white for that joke...
Homie dont play like that....
That was funny from RW
In reply to Dan_De_Lyan
In reply to sudden
Good luck on your 6th marriage.... you don't seem to learn... you live for punishment.... hahaha
In reply to jen
So true. If he was prepared to do the work he could make millions from creative writing.
In reply to sudden
What's Up? Are you Aunt Sudden, being asked to give advice on personal relationships?
Go ahead, we are awaiting your advice.
In reply to sudden
Nice story but I am not buying it.
like someone said, Devin had a similar story years ago.
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