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I have never been on a date with a man and ended

 
Courtesy 2019-05-13 10:32:20 

...up in a hotel room.

Ladies please discuss. Men can chip in too.

 
Casper 2019-05-13 11:11:05 

In reply to Courtesy

Date implies planned well before hand.

In my younger business travel days, I ended up in places I wouldn’t even dare contemplating of doing now, or even some time ago.

But that was a different time, and circumstances later called for change in behaviour.

 
Courtesy 2019-05-13 11:18:02 

In reply to Casper

Would you refer to meeting someone for an interview as a date?

 
Casper 2019-05-13 11:40:45 

In reply to Courtesy

Of course not. You walk into an establishment and the end of the evening, you either ended up at your “date”’s home or she in your hotel room.

 
Courtesy 2019-05-13 11:50:49 

In reply to Casper

Thanks. Worst yet is, if as a woman interviewer your interviewee offers you wine first thing.

 
StumpCam 2019-05-13 12:08:02 

In reply to Courtesy

I have never been on a date with a man and ended
...up in a hotel room.


I heard you guys used the bathroom stalls instead! lol lol

 
Courtesy 2019-05-13 12:12:02 

In reply to StumpCam

Perhaps. But can we get back to more interesting discussion?

It's becoming a bit malaise.

big grin

 
StumpCam 2019-05-13 12:28:29 

In reply to Courtesy

In that case, the sentiment is the same!

 
Courtesy 2019-05-13 12:30:39 

In reply to StumpCam

I just did want malaise to get in the way of this discussion.

big grin

 
nick2020 2019-05-13 13:38:28 

In reply to Courtesy

Google is failing me. What is this now?

 
Courtesy 2019-05-13 13:39:35 

In reply to nick2020

lol lol lol

Only malaise can answer this. But if she does not come on this thread to give her views, I will attempt to clarify.

 
methodic 2019-05-13 14:49:33 

I have never been on a date with a man period

 
nick2020 2019-05-13 15:10:05 

In reply to Courtesy

But if she does not come on this thread


You started it so I think that is unlikely. I will continue to Google. Thought it was about Assange but that did not bear any fruit.

 
Courtesy 2019-05-13 15:31:18 

In reply to nick2020

Are you in a hurry?

big grin

 
nick2020 2019-05-13 15:52:41 

In reply to Courtesy

I have a vibe that I will have to wait.

 
Courtesy 2019-05-13 15:58:46 

In reply to nick2020

I have a vibe that I will have to wait.

Don't use it on yourself as my good friend does all the time.

big grin

 
StumpCam 2019-05-13 16:02:03 

In reply to Courtesy

lol lol lol

 
Courtesy 2019-05-13 16:16:08 

Drum roll please...malaise is about to make her entrance.

lol lol lol

 
Courtesy 2019-05-13 19:22:24 

Hello my name is malaise and I approve this thread however age inappropriate it maby be.

lol lol lol

 
nick2020 2019-05-13 19:45:47 

In reply to Courtesy

So the author would recognize his/her title?

 
Courtesy 2019-05-13 19:52:04 

In reply to nick2020
lol lol lol

Nick, apparently not, she ain't touching this. It's like the real thing and not a vibe.

big grin

 
nick2020 2019-05-13 20:00:15 

In reply to Courtesy

Maybe said author does not frequent this website. Or the back room.

 
Courtesy 2019-05-13 20:13:59 

In reply to nick2020

It's a good thing Mitch44 did not agree when malaise autocratically deleted a thread here as a moderator in which she (malaise) was quoted.

So yes as a moderator malaise monitors and does her job here in both Front and Back Room albeit with much self preservation.

 
Casper 2019-05-13 20:43:33 

If a woman accepts an invitation to a man’s hotel room, it’s only natural for a man to assume “some” things.

But the man should not act on his assumptions, unless there is a clear understanding that any subsequent action(s) he undertakes is (are) met with at least her tacit approval.

The main thing here is to move slowly to lower resistance, so that if at any time she cares to object to further action, the man is strong enough to call a halt to proceedings.

If a man is not strong to say whoa to himself when his natural instinct maybe giddy up then he should be prepared to accept the consequences of his subsequent actions.

 
Courtesy 2019-05-13 20:50:39 

In reply to Casper

"Tacit approval" in this Metoo age. You must be kidding. I implore you to get a lot more than "tacit approval." Otherwise as Chrissy suggests and I am paraphrasing here, you will be considered a scumbag.

big grin

 
Casper 2019-05-13 21:25:02 

In reply to Courtesy

Though tacit approval may imply silence with no resistance, it could be confirmed by simply gestures and inquires as to whether each building step is okay and accepted.

No explicit objections, means green light to the next step. Until the red light comes up, it’s giddy up, but as I said before, be prepared to say whoa.

If the man, normally in charge, has no self-control, then he has no business getting into such situations. Very few women are culturally conditioned to take charge of such situations.

 
Courtesy 2019-05-13 21:29:31 

In reply to Casper

Mate, continue your tried and trusted method of looking for signs of blushing from a woman.

lol lol lol

 
birdseye 2019-05-13 23:06:12 

In reply to Courtesy

I have never been on a date with a man and ended up in a hotel room.


Is there some ambiguity in this post’s heading, or was i just wrong in assuming poster ‘courtesy’ is a strait male?

 
Courtesy 2019-05-13 23:17:11 

In reply to birdseye

I don't have a problem with my sexuality and will never have a problem whether I am "strait" or not.

 
nick2020 2019-05-14 10:54:31 

In reply to Courtesy

The author was watching at 5.

Nothing to see here.

 
Banner 2019-05-14 11:01:24 

If I invite a chick back to my hotel room, and she accepts, she knows what time it is!!!!

 
Walco 2019-05-14 11:19:45 

In reply to Banner

Mike Tyson ended up in prison after inviting a woman to his hotel room who apparently did not know what time it was ...

 
Courtesy 2019-05-14 11:56:15 

In reply to nick2020

Perhaps like me, she thinks most posters here are too illiterate to make any meaningful discussion on a topic like this and therefore she goes on another site to discourse with perceived high intelligent persons.

Have you noticed her posts here are the typical?:

Whhaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!!

Watch de ride.

Dis done

Dat is all

Check your PM

Leff dem bro

We suck

Real nice

Now KYS!!! Goodbye!!

Look fi big news tomorrow.

Allyuh 'does' mek I laff.

Allyuh need prozac

Yu 'fraid fi yuhself or what???

real crapco?

Among many other three syllable posts which are reserved for de ignorant natives here.

She never thought it fitting to start such a post here. Why?

 
Courtesy 2019-05-14 13:45:45 

Unlike Dan_ De_ Lyan's thread, this thread was not banned. The poster/moderator has learnt some invaluable life lessons.

big grin

 
Banner 2019-05-14 14:04:42 

In reply to Walco

He a bad judge then.

 
nick2020 2019-05-14 14:41:14 

In reply to Banner

If you think you are a better judge then you are unfamiliar with the scope of the situation. Too many men assault women. So a few women rape men.

Either way the victim does not see it coming.

 
Dan_De_Lyan 2019-05-15 03:27:58 

In reply to Courtesy

Unlike Dan_ De_ Lyan's thread, this thread was not banned. The poster/moderator has learnt some invaluable life lessons.


I know what it feels like to loose all your amendments and can't violate the any of the commandments on CC
big grin

 
Dan_De_Lyan 2019-05-16 04:07:53 

bump..

I have been on a date with a poster and stiff him a cab fare
big grin

 
Courtesy 2019-05-16 11:55:01 

In reply to Dan_De_Lyan

I must be thankful for small mercies. Malaise did not ban this thread as she did with yours on the malaise revelation..

big grin

 
nick2020 2019-05-16 12:00:42 

In reply to Courtesy

Have you noticed her posts here are the typical


Mexico is sending their worst? big grin

Whhaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!!


This type is by far my favourite.

 
Dan_De_Lyan 2019-05-16 12:10:15 

Casper sounds like PROWhen it comes to the subject.

Must be nice to be a ghost and use the tingling caper sense.

She lay in silence? From fear or submission?

 
nick2020 2019-05-16 12:17:28 

In reply to Dan_De_Lyan

To offer analysis here:

Courtesy's post is relatively stagnant.
The post on DU received 157 replies.

Maybe we are a "Waaaaah" audience?

 
Courtesy 2019-05-16 12:19:16 

In reply to nick2020

My favourite post is "Di Bomshell" that never happened. I will re-read it later for any moments of levity.

The thread attracted over 400 posts and was kept alive for weeks if not months.

DAVE400 featured prominently on this thread.

lol lol lol