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My mommy died this morning.

 
bravos Jan 6, 2025, 6:57:42 AM 

After a brief illness, we didn't think she would die like that, was never bed ridden, just weak, I am devastated friends, she was 73 .

RIP Angela .

 
Halliwell Jan 6, 2025, 7:00:52 AM 

In reply to bravos

Very sorry to hear this, Bravs. I send you sincere wishes for comfort and strength.

 
Emir Jan 6, 2025, 7:09:36 AM 

In reply to bravos

I am so sorry for your loss brother. May she RIP.

 
ray Jan 6, 2025, 7:24:34 AM 

Sorry to hear this. May she rest in peace

 
BeatDball Jan 6, 2025, 7:44:25 AM 

Deepest condolences. Rip. sad

 
cricketmad Jan 6, 2025, 7:55:33 AM 

RIP Mama Bravo .

 
Da-Vincy Jan 6, 2025, 8:21:37 AM 

Oh no..
Very sorry to hear this bro…especially as it was unexpected.
Deepest condolences to you and the family.
Hope that the good memories provide some comfort.

 
ponderiver Jan 6, 2025, 8:25:21 AM 

In reply to bravos

sorry to hear this bravs sad is now with the ancestors may she rest in eternal peace

 
StumpCam Jan 6, 2025, 8:35:52 AM 

In reply to bravos

Heartfelt condolences to you and family!
May her soul rest in peace!

 
VIX Jan 6, 2025, 8:36:43 AM 

Please accept my condolences.

 
sudden Jan 6, 2025, 8:39:13 AM 

In reply to bravos

Bravs, my condolences to you, family and relatives

may your mom RIP

 
googley Jan 6, 2025, 9:21:29 AM 

May her soul RIP. My condolences to you and the rest of the family.

 
seaegg99 Jan 6, 2025, 9:37:33 AM 

Condolences to you and the Family.

 
Chrissy Jan 6, 2025, 10:05:24 AM 

In reply to bravos
Deepest sympathy bro

 
Walco Jan 6, 2025, 10:06:45 AM 

In reply to bravos

My sincere and heartfelt condolences bravos. There is nothing in life that prepares us for the death of a parent.

 
XDFIX Jan 6, 2025, 10:07:18 AM 

In reply to bravos

Sorry bro; stay strong! May her soul rest in peace!

 
Narper Jan 6, 2025, 10:09:19 AM 

In reply to bravos

Deepest condolences to you and family.
Stay strong bro

 
FanAttick Jan 6, 2025, 10:15:15 AM 

In reply to bravos

Sincere condolences bro…really sorry to hear

 
Drapsey Jan 6, 2025, 10:43:03 AM 

In reply to bravos

Walk good, Mamma Bravos.

You did well.

 
XFactor Jan 6, 2025, 10:59:27 AM 

In reply to bravos

My heartfelt condolences Bravos.

 
hubert Jan 6, 2025, 11:51:33 AM 

In reply to bravos

Condolences my friend...delight yourself in the fine memories of her.

 
Brerzerk Jan 6, 2025, 1:12:56 PM 

Sincere Condolences Bravs, tough road ahead!
Doan resist the need to grief even if it means bawling like a baby sometimes because guess what? Sometimes (in between) a smile from a fond memory will emerge. Walk Good Mommy and Bravs please know that CC.com ha e you and your family in our thoughts.

 
bravos Jan 6, 2025, 1:44:48 PM 

Thank you very much all, I know why I shared this with you all, I really needed as much support as i could get. My mom and I were very close.

She literally died in my arms yesterday in her bedroom not too long after returning her home from 6 days at hospital. We noticed she started going, and we admisntered CPR and the ambulance came in 5 mins and took over but she didn't respond, she was revived after being rushed to hospital, by very professional medical staff after 40 mins, but it was just too much for her.

She passed this morning at 7am. We are now making necessary arrangements for mom to get the best possible send off available.

A combination of a cardiomyopathy from past covid and a bad virus that her heart couldn't cope with over the last week or so, It simply stopped .

Thank you all , I will be in touch . Blessings.

 
WalterWhite Jan 6, 2025, 1:51:41 PM 

In reply to bravos

Condolences to you. Mine died last year so I know how it feels.

 
Kay Jan 6, 2025, 2:34:04 PM 

Sincere condolences. May she rest in peace .....

 
Cheeks Jan 6, 2025, 2:58:44 PM 

Deepest condolences. 73 is not old. Wishing you and family comfort in this tough time.

 
birdseye Jan 6, 2025, 3:02:48 PM 

In reply to bravos

My sincere Condolences man, sorry to hear. Hang tough and keep the faith.

 
DukeStreet Jan 6, 2025, 3:39:35 PM 

In reply to bravos

Condolences, my brother. I can only imagine the pain you are feeling right now. Stay strong. Her sufferings are over now.

 
tc1 Jan 6, 2025, 4:05:34 PM 

Condolences to you and your family.

 
bedydread Jan 6, 2025, 4:26:35 PM 

Sorry to hear man, heartfelt condolences, the circle of life, never easy, I wish you strength in this difficult time.

 
pooranian Jan 6, 2025, 4:29:38 PM 

My deepest condolences..stay strong..time heals

 
JoeGrine Jan 6, 2025, 5:09:41 PM 

In reply to bravos

Sympathies Bravo!

 
nickoutr Jan 6, 2025, 5:17:08 PM 

In reply to bravos

Deepest Sympathy.

RIP

 
kgbcan Jan 6, 2025, 6:18:10 PM 

In reply to bravos

My sincere condolences, May her soul rest in peace and may her love ones find comfort.

 
openning Jan 6, 2025, 7:36:49 PM 

In reply to bravos

Sorry to hear of your loss.
Condolences to you and your family.
May she rest in peace.

 
Curtis Jan 6, 2025, 7:40:57 PM 

In reply to bravos

Deepest sympathies bro, to you and extended family.
Wish you all peace and comfort. May she RIP.

 
nick2020 Jan 6, 2025, 7:54:56 PM 

In reply to bravos

Sincere condolences to you and your family.

 
bravos Jan 6, 2025, 8:03:25 PM 

Thanks again everyone for the support .

 
CWWeekes Jan 6, 2025, 10:29:06 PM 

Condolences to you and family Bravos. May she rest in peace

 
imusic Jan 7, 2025, 12:27:39 PM 

There really are no words.

May your Mom RIP. Hang in there

 
Overthrow Jan 7, 2025, 1:22:22 PM 

Sincere condolences to the entire family

 
Casper Jan 7, 2025, 1:41:56 PM 

Bravos, my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. My prayer is that you will comfort each other during this difficult time.

I am sure your mother was an incredible person, and her kindness and warmth will always be remembered by you and family.

I am deeply aware of some of the emotions you are going through now. Last year was such a time for me when I had to give eulogies within a matter of months for my eldest brother and his eldest son.

Time heals, but the memories of your mother will live on forever.

Stay striong.

 
camos Jan 7, 2025, 2:27:19 PM 

stay strong Big man.

 
carl0002 Jan 7, 2025, 4:03:10 PM 

Heartfelt condolences to you and family. Very sorry to hear about your mother. I know what that feels like so be comforted in knowing that she did her 3 scores and 10 and the good times spent and memories live on and can not be taken away. God Bless.

 
bravos Jan 8, 2025, 12:09:46 AM 

Thank you for the kind thoughtful and deep words friends, they are priceless, no amount of support is too much after dealing with the loss of your closest ally and confidant .


The funeral is next week Wednesday, in the meantime we reflect on our lives and take comfort from memories of our great times with mom, grandmom and great garandmom over the years .

Will be in touch , thanks again . * bless..

 
pelon Jan 9, 2025, 9:39:41 AM 

Condolences to the entire family.
Never easy to bury a loved one, and a Mother is another level of pain.
Sorry I did not see this thread before.

Stay strong.

 
tops Jan 10, 2025, 8:07:14 AM 

In reply to bravos
My sincere condolences to you and the family. Focus on the wonderful memories she left you with.

 
RedDuppy Jan 10, 2025, 10:21:38 AM 

In reply to bravos

My sincere condolences.

 
JayMor Jan 10, 2025, 10:35:23 AM 

In reply to bravos

Deepest sympathies and regrets, breds. Really sorry to hear.

--Æ.

 
Trex Jan 10, 2025, 11:14:28 AM 

In reply to bravos

My condolences Bravos. Really sorry to hear the sad news.

 
HumbleCalf Jan 11, 2025, 9:38:21 AM 

In reply to bravos

Wishing you the strength to get through this difficult time.

May her soul RIP.

 
InHindsight Jan 11, 2025, 11:04:10 AM 

My sincere condolences to you and family Bravo

 
bravos Jan 12, 2025, 12:57:54 AM 

Just checking in to acknowledge later well wishers, thanks again for the kind and thoughtful words of comfort and inspiration in this my greatest challenge ..

 
Brerzerk Jan 12, 2025, 12:47:29 PM 

In reply to bravos

How yuh holding up bro? Different emotions gonna come n go yuh know. Try to be strong for the others. But don't feel no way if there are moments when they're stronger and you need their shoulder.

 
PM Jan 12, 2025, 1:19:51 PM 

In reply to bravos

Very sad to read this. My sincere condolences, take care.

 
Chrissy Jan 12, 2025, 8:41:14 PM 

How yuh doing bro. Must be so painful.

 
Slipfeeler Jan 12, 2025, 8:46:40 PM 

In reply to bravos

My condolences to you and family, may she sleep in peace.

 
trev114 Jan 13, 2025, 11:29:05 PM 

Sincere condolences, sympathy and empathy....stay strong and I hope you can find comfort in friends and relatives...

 
mikesiva Jan 14, 2025, 4:26:01 AM 

In reply to bravos

Condolences, bro.

Many of us have been in the same position as you.

RIP.

 
cherri Jan 14, 2025, 6:55:09 PM 

In reply to bravos

Please accept my sincerest condolences on the passing of your mom, my she rest in peace.

 
bravos Jan 18, 2025, 10:01:41 AM 

Yes friends still going through the process, of course it gets better every day but it comes back at you hard at times, thank you everyone again for the thoughtful words of support and advice, I can tell you that they do help ! Thank you

Mom got a nice send off ..

May share a couple pics of my mom over the years to close off the thread a bit later..

 
black Jan 18, 2025, 8:54:31 PM 

In reply to bravos

Sorry to hear about your mom. I remember some of your previous posts in which you showed much love for your mom.

My condolences to you, Sir.

 
bravos Jan 19, 2025, 12:14:01 PM 

Yes bro it was hard, still surreal to me .

Thanks for the support, bless .

 
Chrissy Jan 19, 2025, 6:51:38 PM 

In reply to bravos
Eventually you will be filled with lovely memories. For now you have the right to be sad.
Losing parents is rough.

 
Cricket_101 Jan 20, 2025, 10:23:07 AM 

In reply to bravos

So sorry to hear. May her soul RIP. My deepest condolences to the family and friends. PRAYERS.

 
bravos Jan 21, 2025, 12:10:25 PM 

Thanks again.

Before we close off this thread I would like to share some pics of my mom over the years .

Younger days

Always looking out for and tried to elevate her family from very young, she actually arranged this portrait day at 19 y.o. she was the eldest ..and had many other younger siblings/half siblings and she helped all..

Same day ..

Same day ...

With her favorite aunt who supported her while other family disowned and castigated her for deciding to be with my older african dad..

Studio photos were big in those days.

Over the years .

Couldn't resist a baby, holding one of my cousins from UK in the mid 70s

Just chilling..80's

Came to London to meet me at school one summer, we went to Miami before returning to T&T for my summer vacation late 80's

before heading to airport in T&T for that trip..

Some time in the 90s.

One of her US trips early 2000's


With two of my sons mid 2000's

With the same two 2021..her 70th birthday.

Late 2000s

With wifey and our last son in 2018 for a family event at our home

Same day..


These and many other pics have been my goto all my life, from small to now, always loved looking at her pics over the years, and i would continue to.

Thanks again everyone.

Goodbye mom .

 
bravos Jan 21, 2025, 12:35:59 PM 

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