Brian Lara's Mother Passes Away
By Andre BaptisteBrian Lara's mom Pearl Lara died early this morning. Mrs. Lara
had suffered a mild stroke in October last year and was
hospitalized for five days that month and was expected to recover
over time.
In October last year, Mrs. Lara who had been ill for a while, fell
down at her Santa Cruz home and was rushed to the hospital
suffering from a mild stroke.
West Indies batsman Brian Lara was in Jamaica at that time and
had been very concerned on receiving the news of the stroke
suffered by his dear mother. We can only offer our sincere sympathy
to him at this time, as we know how close he and his mother were.
We are sure he can have some comfort in knowing he was close at
hand this time (Recall: Brian's current injury has prevented him
from actively participating in the sport of cricket).
Mrs. Lara always kept her faith in the lord and said that God knew
best. It is this fath that will have to carry her children through
this difficult process
This very polite and pleasant lady was a mother of 11. In May last
year, Pearl Lara spoke to this reporter on her illness. She
suffered with cervical spondylosis (occurs when the neck bone is
pressing against the nerve which can paralyze the arm) and also
battles diabetes, and has lost the use of her left arm for over 1
1/2 years, there is no sign of improvement locally as well.
At that time Mrs. Lara was recovering from a broken arm, "The
problem is that I broke my right hand, which was my only good hand,
as I cannot use my left arm for a long time now, it is very hard
for me, as I cannot even dress myself, but thankfully I have my
children to help me," Pearl Lara said in May from her Santa Cruz
home .
"They have all come together and ensure that I am able to get
things done during the day and get on with my life, I thank the
lord for all of them."
"It seems to me; as if I have to live with this pain and sometimes
it gets worse. I have seen so many doctors in Trinidad .......... I
am just tired"
The 66 year old Pearl Lara admitted "All of my children are working
now and it is not easy for any of them to take time off to take me
to the United States.....I really cannot travel alone. I understand
that and I am coping as bet as I can then," she stated.
"It is now over 12 years (April 16th) since my husband died, and he
and all my children have progressed in that time, it has not been
easy, but I have managed to keep the family together" she added.
As with any concerned mother Pearl Lara had one main wish for her
son Brian, the Double World Record Holder, "Brian is a tired soul,
he gives his whole heart and soul to cricket, but our cricketers
much be tired because they have been playing non-stop cricket for a
long time." "When Brian bats and he does not make many runs, he
becomes very disappointed, he wants to do very well always for the
West Indies team.
"If you look at the television when he gets out, he is always
talking to himself and mumbling to himself, he is upset to be
dismissed, he knows how much the team is depending on him."
"Sometimes there always is a lot of pressure on him, but he has
learnt that so much is expected of him, that when he does not do
well, he feels it, he is very competitive." Pearl Lara believed at
that time though that Brian's problems with his eyes needed to be
addressed.
"Certainly his eyes give him some problems, especially from the
glare from the sun and it is a distraction. The eye is so very
important."
"But I know that he will make the necessary arrangements soon to
have this situation corrected with his eyes."
She however said she was calling ". .....for all the support the
team can get from the public, because these boys are all
representing us in the West Indies, We need to stay loyal to the
team, it is a difficult time, but we must keep the faith"
"I just hope that our players can get a rest and get time to spend
with family and friends. All this cricket is not always good,
people need to have time to relax."
At this time we would like that nation to say a short prayer for
this great lady who has gone to get her rest in heaven. God bless
her and her family.