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?Well, you don?t look like it!? he said,
Chrissy
2018-04-20 07:43:51
and laughed
I met Prince Charles this week at the Commonwealth Peoples Forum at which I was a speaker (on a day whose itinerary was entitled Politics of Hope: Taking on Injustice in the Commonwealth). It was part of the buildup to the Commonwealth heads of government meeting, the summit of leaders of 53 countries representing more than 2 billion people.
I shook the princes hand with my right hand. In my other, I was holding a copy of an anthology, We Mark Your Memory: Writing from the Descendants of Indenture, in which I have an essay published. I told him that my mother was born in Guyana and that the anthology had collected hidden histories of indenture.
And where are you from? asked the prince.
Manchester, UK, I said.
Well, you dont look like it! he said, and laughed. He was then ushered on to the next person.
Although I have experienced such off-the-cuff, supposedly humorous, comments before, I was stunned by the gaffe.
Humorous? Nah racist to the core.
ponderiver
2018-04-20 07:56:03
In reply to Chrissy
maybe its just me but what he was saying is you dont look like the people i know who are from Manchester
Racist? it's a question of perception .... he was merely expressing what he was thinking ...... would I be bothered? not one bit because his opinion of me doesn't count and two i wouldnt be found in that setting
Chrissy
2018-04-20 08:05:22
In reply to ponderiver
i wouldnt be found in that setting
This!
birdseye
2018-04-20 08:20:49
In reply to ponderiver
he was merely expressing what he was thinking ...... would I be bothered? not one bit because his opinion of me doesn't count and two i wouldnt be found in that setting
And you believe his thinking only prevails in that setting? That thinking may be more pervasive than you seem to want to acknowledge --- reminds me of the Holocaust setting - First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak outbecause I was not a Socialist.---- you know the rest but then your postings are always in a certain recycled box ---
Chrissy
2018-04-20 08:22:14
In reply to birdseye
But a white man belongs in Africa - racist to the core
ponderiver
2018-04-20 08:37:45
In reply to birdseye
wow you gleaned all that from my comments
what if i told you that I already know how they think in and out of their circle.
what if i told you I don't give a rass what they think of me ...... I am not seeking their approval or love
but then your postings are always in a certain recycled box
......... thank you for taking the time to read them I really mean that ................. I am however totally undeserving of your valuable time
Runs
2018-04-20 08:39:41
In reply to Chrissy
Goes to show titles, accomplishments etc does not necessarily brings class.
Maispwi
2018-04-20 08:40:28
In reply to Chrissy
So why didn she reply dat he didn look like royalty either? Was she too much in awe of him to say so or was she just happy for the gaffe, as she calls it, to write an article to inflame racial tensions?
We are all racist
Ayenmol
2018-04-20 08:45:06
In reply to ponderiver
Because of this Royalty in Countries like Britain class is foremost in many people's mind. Because of that there is an overwhelming sense of identity and acceptance based on the pecking order of families and individuals.
This exist in every Culture. Here in the US it is based on education and Money and Talent! Every parent is either elated or worried based on which of those zip codes their prospective in law occupies!
Remember 90210? The cache that came with that zip code?
People have preconceived ideas particularly when Class plays a huge part of how civil worth is perceived!
Am not sure how that makes someone Racist. It's part of life!
Even t the accuser uses Education as a division in ranking people of import!
ponderiver
2018-04-20 08:47:15
In reply to birdseye
I do public speaking from time to time and I often get people coming up to me and asking where are you from....... The minute i tell them Jamaica ....... the next comment that follows is" well you dont sound like a Jamaican "
my stock reply is I don't sound like a Jamaican that you know.....
I am blessed in the sense that I am a fluent patwah speaker and I am as fluent in the queen's English as a Cambridge don....... you cannot even begin to imagine the fun I have when i switch from one to the other....
Larr Pullo
2018-04-20 08:57:24
In reply to ponderiver
You're so posh!
ponderiver
2018-04-20 09:00:54
In reply to Larr Pullo
nah man yuh is di don when it comes to that
NineMiles
2018-04-20 09:03:33
In reply to Larr Pullo
PondieScum is a pretentious git!
runout
2018-04-20 09:12:31
In reply to ponder over
Preach it bro. All those who seek acceptance should first accept themselves.
FuzzyWuzzy
2018-04-20 09:14:40
Tryangle
2018-04-20 09:15:29
In reply to Maispwi
So why didn she reply dat he didn look like royalty either?
My impression is that she was too stunned by the statement to come up with a good hard-hitting reply at the time.
ponderiver
2018-04-20 09:22:14
In reply to runout
Preach it bro. All those who seek acceptance should first accept themselves.
exactly !!!
birdseye
2018-04-20 09:24:00
In reply to ponderiver
I am blessed in the sense that I am a fluent patwah speaker and I am as fluent in the queen's English as a Cambridge don....... you cannot even begin to imagine the fun I have when i switch from one to the other....
Mnnnn --- you sounding like Donald (spanky) Trump ---- that you have qualities/skills that no one else possesses
sudden
2018-04-20 09:25:00
so WTF is wrong with what the guy said? man if an indo guyanese tells me he from Carrington Village, i would respond in the same manner.
of course it doesnt mean that the guyanese isnt from Carrington Village
NineMiles
2018-04-20 09:26:32
In reply to birdseye
LOL....yuh killing me here man!
Pondie-Spanky-Scum!
sudden
2018-04-20 09:26:33
In reply to ponderiver
Cambridge? speaks Patwah? speaks the Queen's English? only one of them true. wuh loss muh belly...murder in de market murder
NineMiles
2018-04-20 09:27:39
sudden
2018-04-20 09:31:34
we black people always looking for validation from the others. get serious people. grow TF up
ponderiver
2018-04-20 09:31:40
ponderiver
2018-04-20 09:35:12
sudden
2018-04-20 09:37:59
In reply to ponderiver
did you type that in Patwah or the Queen's english, Mr Cambridge don?
Runs
2018-04-20 09:58:53
In reply to ponderiver
I can relate
Ninetenjack
2018-04-20 10:28:00
In reply to Chrissy
Humorous? Nah racist to the core.
He is nothing like his Dad for the most part, but his Dad was racist gaffe machine.....
nick2020
2018-04-20 10:30:28
In reply to Chrissy
You are trampling on the meaning of the word racism.
A blue person could look at another blue person and say "you don't look like you are from Mars".
You are assuming he made that distinction based on the colour of someone's skin.
Does that not make you racist?
nick2020
2018-04-20 10:31:44
In reply to sudden
we black people always looking for validation from the others. get serious people. grow TF up
I have a serious question for you.
Is Chrissy black?
sudden
2018-04-20 10:34:12
In reply to nick2020
I dont know and dont care but she puts up a good fight for the cause and she is mostly correct
nick2020
2018-04-20 10:35:33
In reply to sudden
Oh.
You used "we". So this does not include Chrissy.
nick2020
2018-04-20 10:37:02
In reply to sudden
she puts up a good fight for the cause
Except for the times she has said some horribly racist things.
sudden
2018-04-20 10:37:17
In reply to nick2020
good question. i assume she is a we.
nick2020
2018-04-20 10:46:06
In reply to sudden
Well we is not me.
sudden
2018-04-20 10:53:24
In reply to nick2020
i believe that Chrissy believes she is black. i am black. the "we" in this case refers to "we, black people." if you believe you are not black then of course it does not include you
Kay
2018-04-20 10:56:11
In reply to Chrissy
Humorous? Nah racist to the core.
Wow!! You surely know how to spot them. Is there some special skill or training required? Or you have to be born that way?
problemjay
2018-04-20 11:05:30
In America, it would have been worse because some would have marched all day, all night just to get him to say sorry although his intentions may not have been racist. Al Sharpton would have been front and center
People got to learn to let these things go, nobody gives ah fack anymore, look at what you saying to others and most likely you probably saying something others may take offensive although your intentions may have been harmless
Khaga
2018-04-20 11:24:39
Phillip was orders of magnitude worse from Charles..
nick2020
2018-04-20 13:29:07
In reply to sudden
The scientist in me cannot help but think that no intelligent person should view anyone as black/white/blue/green.
You would be hard pressed to find anyone who is purely/genetically "one race".
One does not exist.
sudden
2018-04-20 13:32:14
In reply to nick2020
scientifically maybe but how about socially? you can think however you like but in reality humans believe there are different races- therefore there are
Chrissy
2018-04-20 13:35:36
In reply to FuzzyWuzzy
Khaga
2018-04-20 13:36:08
But,this is funny coming from Chrissy who would excoriate a black man for not supporting Obama..huepocricy!!
Chrissy
2018-04-20 13:36:36
In reply to nick2020
Of course I'm black
sudden
2018-04-20 13:37:20
Surya,
what has that got got to do with the price of rice in China?
nick2020
2018-04-20 14:10:38
In reply to Chrissy
I have seen your picture. Even socially you would not be considered black.
nick2020
2018-04-20 14:16:08
In reply to sudden
i believe that Chrissy believes she is black. i am black.
I look at the words people choose closely. Maybe to make up for my poor vocabulary so I can improve it.
I notice you were definitive in your assessment of your race yet you used perspective in your assessment of Chrissy's.
Is race variable based on self-identification? Is Rachel Dolezal black?
Obama is obviously not black by any measure (other than the racist one drop) but he appears to self-identify as black. Tiger Woods self-identifies as mixed.
It is all very stupid.
sudden
2018-04-20 14:51:30
In reply to nick2020
race is a social construct as you attempted to allude to but did not quite conclude. i have been socialised as a black bajan despite living most of my life outside Bim, therefore i am black and a bajan. and if Chrissy, who has black or what we call black forebearers, believes she is black who am i to say otherwise.
sgtdjones
2018-04-20 14:57:17
In reply to ponderiver
wuh loss muh belly...murder in de market murder
Doh mention belly to sudden, u go chase the girthed one away.
sgtdjones
2018-04-20 15:10:11
In reply to ponderiver
Racist? it's a question of perception .... he was merely expressing what he was thinking ...... would I be bothered? not one bit because his opinion of me doesn't count and two i wouldnt be found in that setting
Pondie
You are dealing with Caribbean intellectuals, they have little attention span, notice the gist of the topic has changed and you are the temporary focus of attention.
I called in to your radio show on the BBC and spoke to you on air, had no problem communicating with you.
You accentuated according to the callers
on the live air show.
birdseye
2018-04-20 15:28:20
In reply to sgtdjones
I called in to your radio show on the BBC
What show was that the poppy?
ponderiver
2018-04-20 16:14:36
goofballs
2018-04-20 16:30:12
In reply to problemjay
People got to learn to let these things go, nobody gives ah fack anymore,
Most sensible thing I read in a while on sissy!
Well, the no name writer of one poem milking it to death with Royal publicity
and the resident pseudo scholars and clerics yahso who comb thru everything written looking for racism or religious bias or suggestions of it. Actually, live their lives looking for it.
I was gonna say people of the Caribbean but I realize this cc publication, with the many disgruntled victims, some with the frustrations of Coughlan's syndrome, in no way represent the common WI man (or woman).
The woman (not Chrissy) took herself too seriously and maybe Charles is dumb and concrete. Well, the woman got popularity by screaming victim.
I make a joke of it when someone asks me in the work place where I come from. If it is a white, I would say Dundalk, known for poor, alcoholic red necks. Ninety nine percent would smile.
If it is a black person I would call a place name in PG Co equivalent to Tiger Bay in GT (hard core poor, black,criminal area) and they would laugh out loudly. (Colored people are more expressive)
They get it!
If they don't get it as humor, it at least stops them from prying further into my ancestry.
This girl (not Chrissy) was serious for recognition and attention, and the Prince could not get it or be diplomatic. If he was trying to be funny it did not come across so. He was just being dumb and insensitive........... due to his dumbness.
goofballs
2018-04-20 16:33:14
In reply to ponderiver
Wow! It took me over 15 mins to write my thing as your post was not there when I started.
granite
2018-04-20 16:42:48
In reply to ponderiver
I do that all the time,I speak like a born and bred English but I can speak totally Caribbean patois when I need to or if I feel to.I say Caribbean patois but really it's Jamaican.
sgtdjones
2018-04-20 17:12:24
In reply to birdseye
What show was that the poppy? smile
Example PATWAH dictionary
Patois: Him a poppy show, as soon as him leff him yaad, him wife bring in a new man
English: He is a fool, as soon he leaves his house, his wife brings in a new man
Poppy show ???
Naw pondie show was a sports call in live program
on the BBC. He just playing polytricks here man.
Pondie bad like yaz in pommie land.Him, he bashy on the BBC.Everything cook and curry.
JayMor
2018-04-20 19:00:38
In reply to sgtdjones
Pondie
You are dealing with Caribbean intellectuals, they have little attention span, notice the gist of the topic has changed and you are the temporary focus of attention.
I called in to your radio show on the BBC and spoke to you on air, had no problem communicating with you.
You accentuated according to the callers on the live air show.
Glad you made this post since I had started to wonder if Pondie had crossed so many here when I wasn't looking.
Ninesy coming out as he did, I understand since they've had a long history (emanating from of football, I think). But
Birdie surprised me; he is normally so... well... normal. LOL.
Didn't know he had a radio show; will have to find out more.
In reply to ponderiver
For the record, I don't have an advanced degree, but I know grammar and do speak English fairly well; been the case from before emigrating from Ja and I am proud of that. Hailing from a 'remote' mountaintop area, I cut my teeth on western Ja Patois, so it's practically innate. And many are the times that I have had to code-switch, sometimes to the surprise of an interlocutor or an audience. So, like
Runs said, I can relate and totally get what you said on that count.
--Æ.
Narper
2018-04-20 19:22:30
In reply to goofballs
Well, you dont look like it! he said, and laughed. He was then ushered on to the next person.
The woman wanted more conversation
Charles actually gave her a compliment...not looking like a Manchester person
sgtdjones
2018-04-20 22:26:10
In reply to nick2020
I have seen your picture. Even socially you would not be considered black.
Are you implying that Chrissy used the whitening cream khaga gave her from India?
goofballs
2018-04-21 00:08:36
In reply to Narper
Sorry, I didn't see this.
Well, you dont look like it! he said, and laughed.
The man
laughed!
Anybody ever seen this gurmusaha smile much less laugh?
He was trying to break the ice, make a benign statement.
Now, if she had said Southall, Brixton or East Bengali area he (and I) wouldn't have batted an eyelid.
Think of the publicity she is generating, and a la the cleric here, is claiming victim role to further fuel an innate flame present in most of mankind.
NineMiles
2018-04-22 09:34:35
Yeah, PondieScum worked with and was mentored by that well known Paedophile monster Jimmy Savile at the BBC!
sudden
2018-04-22 09:38:36
In reply to NineMiles
Or one of Jimmy's many victims. poor lad
NineMiles
2018-04-22 09:41:20
In reply to sudden
Good point that...he was likely buggered by Savile at the Beeb!
Chrissy
2018-04-22 09:57:47
In reply to JayMor
I taught remedial English for 17 years. It started out for the children of our office attendants and groundsmen. I taught it as a foreign language because I had to learn Jamaican when I moved here.
Eventually I didn't have space as lots of co-workers and their friends wanted their children in the programme. The first thing I told them was that when they wanted to have a private conversation in the presence of foreigners they can use their own language, but they needed as many other languages as possible to survive on this planet.
It remains one of the best chapters in my life. In 17 tears one student received a CXC2 - everyone else received a CXC1.
They learned to translate from one to the other and understand the grammatical differences - it was so much fun. We used Jamaican music, poetry, proverbs, etc.