...up in a hotel room.
Ladies please discuss. Men can chip in too.
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I have never been on a date with a man and ended
In reply to Courtesy
Date implies planned well before hand.
In my younger business travel days, I ended up in places I wouldnt even dare contemplating of doing now, or even some time ago.
But that was a different time, and circumstances later called for change in behaviour.
In reply to Casper
Would you refer to meeting someone for an interview as a date?
In reply to Courtesy
Of course not. You walk into an establishment and the end of the evening, you either ended up at your dates home or she in your hotel room.
In reply to Casper
Thanks. Worst yet is, if as a woman interviewer your interviewee offers you wine first thing.
In reply to Courtesy
...up in a hotel room.
I heard you guys used the bathroom stalls instead!
In reply to StumpCam
Perhaps. But can we get back to more interesting discussion?
It's becoming a bit malaise.
In reply to Courtesy
In that case, the sentiment is the same!
In reply to StumpCam
I just did want malaise to get in the way of this discussion.
In reply to Courtesy
Google is failing me. What is this now?
In reply to nick2020
Only malaise can answer this. But if she does not come on this thread to give her views, I will attempt to clarify.
I have never been on a date with a man period
In reply to Courtesy
You started it so I think that is unlikely. I will continue to Google. Thought it was about Assange but that did not bear any fruit.
In reply to nick2020
Are you in a hurry?
In reply to Courtesy
I have a vibe that I will have to wait.
In reply to nick2020
Don't use it on yourself as my good friend does all the time.
In reply to Courtesy
Drum roll please...malaise is about to make her entrance.
In reply to Courtesy
So the author would recognize his/her title?
In reply to nick2020
Nick, apparently not, she ain't touching this. It's like the real thing and not a vibe.
In reply to Courtesy
Maybe said author does not frequent this website. Or the back room.
In reply to nick2020
It's a good thing Mitch44 did not agree when malaise autocratically deleted a thread here as a moderator in which she (malaise) was quoted.
So yes as a moderator malaise monitors and does her job here in both Front and Back Room albeit with much self preservation.
If a woman accepts an invitation to a mans hotel room, its only natural for a man to assume some things.
But the man should not act on his assumptions, unless there is a clear understanding that any subsequent action(s) he undertakes is (are) met with at least her tacit approval.
The main thing here is to move slowly to lower resistance, so that if at any time she cares to object to further action, the man is strong enough to call a halt to proceedings.
If a man is not strong to say whoa to himself when his natural instinct maybe giddy up then he should be prepared to accept the consequences of his subsequent actions.
In reply to Casper
"Tacit approval" in this Metoo age. You must be kidding. I implore you to get a lot more than "tacit approval." Otherwise as Chrissy suggests and I am paraphrasing here, you will be considered a scumbag.
In reply to Courtesy
Though tacit approval may imply silence with no resistance, it could be confirmed by simply gestures and inquires as to whether each building step is okay and accepted.
No explicit objections, means green light to the next step. Until the red light comes up, its giddy up, but as I said before, be prepared to say whoa.
If the man, normally in charge, has no self-control, then he has no business getting into such situations. Very few women are culturally conditioned to take charge of such situations.
In reply to Casper
Mate, continue your tried and trusted method of looking for signs of blushing from a woman.
In reply to Courtesy
Is there some ambiguity in this posts heading, or was i just wrong in assuming poster courtesy is a strait male?
In reply to birdseye
I don't have a problem with my sexuality and will never have a problem whether I am "strait" or not.
In reply to Courtesy
The author was watching at 5.
Nothing to see here.
If I invite a chick back to my hotel room, and she accepts, she knows what time it is!!!!
In reply to Banner
Mike Tyson ended up in prison after inviting a woman to his hotel room who apparently did not know what time it was ...
In reply to nick2020
Perhaps like me, she thinks most posters here are too illiterate to make any meaningful discussion on a topic like this and therefore she goes on another site to discourse with perceived high intelligent persons.
Have you noticed her posts here are the typical?:
Whhaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!!
Watch de ride.
Dis done
Dat is all
Check your PM
Leff dem bro
We suck
Real nice
Now KYS!!! Goodbye!!
Look fi big news tomorrow.
Allyuh 'does' mek I laff.
Allyuh need prozac
Yu 'fraid fi yuhself or what???
real crapco?
Among many other three syllable posts which are reserved for de ignorant natives here.
She never thought it fitting to start such a post here. Why?
Unlike Dan_ De_ Lyan's thread, this thread was not banned. The poster/moderator has learnt some invaluable life lessons.
In reply to Walco
He a bad judge then.
In reply to Banner
If you think you are a better judge then you are unfamiliar with the scope of the situation. Too many men assault women. So a few women rape men.
Either way the victim does not see it coming.
In reply to Courtesy
I know what it feels like to loose all your amendments and can't violate the any of the commandments on CC
bump..
In reply to Dan_De_Lyan
I must be thankful for small mercies. Malaise did not ban this thread as she did with yours on the malaise revelation..
In reply to Courtesy
Mexico is sending their worst?
This type is by far my favourite.
Casper sounds like PROWhen it comes to the subject.
Must be nice to be a ghost and use the tingling caper sense.
She lay in silence? From fear or submission?
In reply to Dan_De_Lyan
To offer analysis here:
Courtesy's post is relatively stagnant.
The post on DU received 157 replies.
Maybe we are a "Waaaaah" audience?
In reply to nick2020
My favourite post is "Di Bomshell" that never happened. I will re-read it later for any moments of levity.
The thread attracted over 400 posts and was kept alive for weeks if not months.
DAVE400 featured prominently on this thread.
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