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BeatDball Here is part of New Zealand

I landed in Auckland, then took domestic flights to three areas of this country.

Here are a few pictures along the way... Spring in New Zealand.

A very mountainous country with narrow roads and some nasty curves going up to a few thousand feet.

So many hills and mountains with snow

Pacific Coast Highway

Signs like this

On to Napier

Driving to Wellington

Palmerston N

Small towns along the long road trips

In Sydney , I visited the Sydney Cricket ground and back home by Friday

Off to Lunch with a few aussie toots...

22-hour flight from Sydney to Toronto.

In reply to sgtdjones I think there's a Jamaican chic living there & is in love with that place. Naturally, beautiful place. Supposedly, low crime & all the above...but, it's too socishitistic oriented for me! Btw, ah hear there's more sheep than people there!!?

In reply to sgtdjones

As a boy In TT when I did Geography I thought,what a beautiful country I said to myself that one day I would live there.I definitely would have gone but my wife didn't agree.

In reply to BeatDball

I was surprised at the amount of Caribbean nationals living in New Zealand.

A few small towns have Caribbean restaurants .

When West Indies teams tour New Zealand, Caribbean nationals welcome them with a party .

In reply to granite

I have been here on 5 occasions, my wife is from New Zealand.

Yes , its a beautiful Country , that goes crazy about Rugby.
Cricket is in the background whenever New Zealand plays rugby.

Dallas Cowboys tried to sign Lomu , he refused saying he will play only for New Zealand.

Jonah Lomu is not only often considered New Zealand's greatest rugby player, but often the greatest rugby player of all time.
“freight train in ballet shoes”.

Kidney disease took him away at 40 years old.

In reply to sgtdjones


You seem to have missed the best part of New Zealand...

The Bay Of Plenty: with Tauranga, Mt Manganui, and lots of great beaches.

Look at me ....Look at me ..

See Jim Jump....See John run

Loooking all over for the missing " D5 or 6 paintbrush"

In reply to sgtdjones

Congratulations on your recent Marriage!

All the best!

Only last year you said the 6ft tall kiwi/aussie/polynesian was your girlfriend.

In reply to Elsie

My girlfriend/wife is from New Zealand. We have known each other over a decade.

I have visited on numerous occasions and seen what you have mentioned above.
Took the train from Auckland to Queenstown.

Its springtime in New Zealand; beaches are to be avoided at this time; the winds from the South Pole can be rather cool.

A beautiful country.

I am on a business trip to Australia and New Zealand... (6 weeks)

Leaving for Toronto today

6:23 a.m.
Friday, November 15, 2024
Sydney NSW, Australia

Well look news- you ent invite me to your weeding? Where it was?

Anyhow, yuh call out BtB I tort yuh cudda send him ah PM

But now yuh have others on the thread so all good- sudden just in the corner there asking where was his invite too? If there is free food I dey.

In reply to Halliwell

The wedding was a private lil thing a while ago; we have been living together for years and have twin sons...

Sodden has had enough weddings. He doesn't need any more.
He never fails to come by with his usual comment...

In reply to sgtdjones

Sudden returned the caterpillar yet?

In reply to sgtdjones

Nice. love is lovely.

I hope the two 30 year old genius daughters of yours were also part of the festivities!

In reply to sgtdjones

He was a real gate crasher,if i'm not mistaken he had serious kidney problems and retired earlier than expected,I could be wrong.

Btw, what is with TT & NZ?! Didn't a Treeknee, who played for WI cricket...emigrated to NZ & played vs WI?!?

In reply to BeatDball

I hear plenty Mericans moving to NZ soon

You hear lie
That is lie

Will make my first trip there in January. Reading the above, I can't wait.

In reply to JoeGrine

Two years ago, I went to Australia and did not go to NZ, that was a big mistake, so see both countries if you can, since you are in the area!

In reply to camos

I am usually in OZ at that time of the year. First that I will be doing the NZ portion.

I find it sad so few here are congratulating stupidjones on his very recent marriage.

I hope that by now he figured out where his supposed wife is really from!
New Zealand? sgtdjones 2019-08-11: I am not married but attached to a Polynesian New Zealander

Or Australia? sgtdjones 2017-06-23: dis mixture of Polynesian and Aussie from Brisbane, she lives near the GABA , loves cricket

what a mystery. And obviously stupidjones would not lie about something as benign as this!

Niether would he lie about the mystery woman's height:
"Listen nah she is 6ft 4 in with an olive tan,long black hair etc
or is it
she is 6ft 2 inches. So dont mess with me.....

In reply to granite

Yes , he is written into the annals of New Zealand Rugby

Jonah Lomu

Born in Pukekohe to Tongan immigrants from Haʻapai, Lomu grew up between rural Tonga and South Auckland. His childhood in Auckland was marked by local gang violence, and his mother nurtured his interest in sport
Standing 6 feet 4 inches (1.93 m) and weighing 119 kilograms (262 lb), Lomu was famed for his unprecedented speed, strength and agility
was exceptionally large for a wing player.At the age of 19 years and 45 days, Lomu became the youngest All Black player and could run 100 metres in 11.2 seconds
At the end of 1995, Lomu was diagnosed with nephrotic syndrome, a serious kidney disorder.
Lomu underwent a kidney transplant on 28 July 2004 in Auckland, New Zealand.
Lomu made his first appearance in a competitive match since his kidney transplant on 10 December 2005.
He was a lover of languages. In addition to English and his parents' Tongan, he also learned to speak in French, Spanish, Mandarin, Cantonese and he had a working proficiency of Russian.

On the morning of 18 November 2015, Lomu died unexpectedly in Auckland from a heart attack linked to his kidney disease.

In reply to JoeGrine

Take the train from Auckland to Queenstown.

Its amazing.

...to the insecure stalker...

I didn't recently get married. I dont need congratulations from any of the idiots as your self.

She is a mixture of Polynesian and Aussie , born in New Zealand, South Island.

I met her in Brisbane, where her father lives.

With High heels ....she is 6ft 4inches
Regular shoes ..... 6 feet 2 inches.
She is 6ft tall....

Where lies your fcking problem?
I must live in your brain with the only two brain cells you have, huh?
Too much rum eh!!!

Do you notice how I ignore your rass.

Get a life instead of your mother's hammock.

In reply to sgtdjones

I will be sure to do that, thanks!

I dunno guy, Its just that last year a low-value poster insisted that you were single.
You should deal wid that low value poster forthwith!!!!

but this convoluted mess is 100% believable. No different from the other "explanations" to cover up the usual lies.

In reply to VIX

Don't you have a fcking life...

Instead of wondering about mine...

I enjoy driving insecure , low-esteem fcker nuts...an will continue to do so with you.

ta ta...

In reply to VIX

He used to sign his posts with “sarge”

Now he singing off with “ta ta”

As a Trini, you can’t make this stuff up!!!

In reply to sgtdjones

You have no shame, liar

In reply to Halliwell

tata indeed!!

The little fat imbecile ent even realise how blatant the evidence of his copy pastes is .

Now the poor low-value poster have to be begging drunk beatdball to respond to his empty posts!

In reply to Halliwell

Hey, force ripe Brit...ta ta means goodbye
...

I consider the poster to be a fcking idiot.Now copy and paste then AI...he is fcked, rum till I die..

Soon I will give them another... I can write so many thesis on these losers.

I have to write a few proposals the Department of Climate Change, Energy, the Environment and Water, Australia and
New Zealand's Ministry of Business, Innovation & Employment (MBIE) is responsible for energy and natural resources in the country.
It will take a few weeks , then I will leave for the Philippines in January with Exxon.

They have no fcking lives.

Tell your Fren Sodden to shut his fat rass, its boring.

Notice they read what I write; they follow me...

Arawak....I have stalkers...

In reply to sgtdjones

Sarge Help me here nah as I m not so good at Mathematics these days. I getting ole you know. Please elp de le man out


Let's table the facts then see if the math is mathsing.

Fact 1. Flight from Sydney to Toronto is 22 hrs:

In reply to WI_cricfan

eg...6:23 a.m. ​Friday, in Sydney NSW, Australia is
2:23 p.m. ​Thursday, in Toronto, ON
​​22 hours brings me to Friday 12:​30

Once you are onboard, connect your device to Qantas fast and free inflight Wi-Fi in the following three steps
You do realize that Qantas has internet as it flies...

So I guess according to you I cannot post when I am at 40,000 feet or on the ground as we await to deplane?

I gained a day that I lost when I came back...

Any more questions?

In reply to VIX, sudden

What a fukn loser..sad af..but funny too, so ROTFLMAO !! Been seeing those sad posts by that loser looking for attention weeks now it seems lol..

What a pathetic existence ...

In reply to Halliwell

Like you finally seeing the light bro..

Ah know you probably just smarter than me and does just humor the poor guy/gal lol..

In reply to johndom90

D10 get it right pleb !

In reply to bravos

it is difficult to keep up....

The Crabs in the Barrel Mentality: Understanding the Dynamics of Envy and Self-Esteem in the Caribbean

The Caribbean, a region known for its vibrant culture and rich history, paradoxically harbours a phenomenon that can undermine individual success and collective progress: the "crabs in the barrel" mentality. This metaphor describes a situation where individuals, instead of supporting one another, try to pull each other down, much like crabs in a barrel that prevent one from escaping. The roots of this behaviour can often be traced back to deeper issues such as envy, low self-esteem, and a lack of individual accomplishments. It time to explore the psychological dynamics that fuel this mentality and its implications for personal growth and societal advancement.

Envy is a complex emotion that can arise when individuals perceive others as having advantages or successes that they themselves lack. In the Caribbean context, this often manifests as a reaction to anyone who dares to stand out or achieve greatness. Because of historical and socioeconomic influences, envy is not just a passing emotion; it can become engrained in the social fabric. Many people believe that the competition for opportunities and resources can lead to a competitive atmosphere where people feel threatened by their peers' success rather than encouraged to work together.

This emotional response can lead to defensive behaviours, where individuals resort to attacking those who seem to be thriving. This is particularly evident in social media threads, where anonymity can embolden individuals to express their jealousy through harsh criticisms or derogatory comments. It becomes a misguided attempt to elevate their own self-worth by diminishing the accomplishments of others. Such behaviour not only reflects personal insecurities but also reveals a broader pattern within the community that discourages success and reinforces negative comparisons.
Low self-esteem is often intertwined with the crab mentality, creating a cycle that is difficult to break. For many individuals, their self-worth is contingent upon external validation, and when they perceive others as succeeding, it serves as a painful reminder of their own perceived failures. This can lead to a hostile environment where, rather than celebrating the accomplishments of others, individuals feel compelled to tear them down.

In the Caribbean, socioeconomic inequality and a colonial past that has left many people feeling disenfranchised can worsen the effects of low self-esteem. A mindset that prioritizes survival over success is fostered by the societal narrative, which frequently places more emphasis on survival than thriving. As a result, when one individual surpasses this standard, it may cause others to feel inadequate, which may lead them to act in ways that attempt to undermine that achievement.

Accomplishments play a pivotal role in shaping individual identities and perceptions within a community. When people lack personal achievements, it can foster feelings of resentment towards those who have made significant strides in their careers or personal lives. This resentment can manifest in various ways, from passively aggressive comments to outright hostility. In some cases, individuals may feel that by attacking those who succeed, they are somehow levelling the playing field, but in reality, they are only perpetuating a cycle of negativity that undermines the potential for collective advancement.

Moreover, the Caribbean's cultural emphasis on communal ties can sometimes lead to a reluctance to celebrate personal success. Instead of viewing success as an inspiration, it can be seen as a threat to the communal identity. This is especially true in smaller communities where everyone knows each other, and any deviation from the norm can be met with skepticism or disapproval. The pressure to conform can be immense, leading to a reluctance to pursue personal goals for fear of alienating oneself from the group.

To overcome the insidious effects of the crab mentality, it is essential to cultivate a culture of support and encouragement. This starts with recognizing the importance of individual accomplishments as stepping stones towards collective success. By reframing the narrative around success, individuals can begin to see the achievements of others as opportunities for inspiration rather than sources of envy.

Communities can benefit from fostering environments that celebrate diversity in achievements, encouraging individuals to pursue their passions without fear of judgment. Educational institutions, local organizations, and community leaders play a critical role in this transformation.
A sobering reminder of the difficulties in the Caribbean region is provided by the "crabs in the barrel" mentality. We can start to remove the obstacles that stand in the way of progress by comprehending the psychological dynamics of envy, low self-esteem, and the significance of individual achievements. It is time for the Caribbean to adopt an empowering culture that elevates rather than devalues people by celebrating individual accomplishments as group triumphs. The journey towards this transformation may be challenging, but with conscious effort, it is not only possible but imperative for the future of the region.
The ability to understand and absorb the aforementioned will allow you to see yourself.

The above is part of what I wrote as a first-year university student; some of the tangent observations are shown on this thread.( rewrote certain parts)

ta ta

In this wold one has to be aware that long term use of certain types of medication use can lead to characteristic symptoms . Dose adjustments are periodically prescribed and can cause a harrowing time for patient ,staff and family as the consumer adjusts to the new regimen.

Antidepressants , mood stabilizers help maintain an aura of normalcy...but...it is not an exact science.

Flights of fancy , delusions of grandeur/ self importance , normally harmless by themself , especially in minors and very young adults . In adults however, these are cues that some sort of intervention is needed, especially with the more "accomplished" non crab adult.

Sympathy and tolerance most often has to be meted to those in strife .

I wrote the above before 11:16am with tangental recollections

Some of my work from previous years


Pathological lying, also known as pseudologia fantastica (Latin for "fantastic pseudology"), is a chronic behavior characterized by the habitual or compulsive tendency to lie.[1][2][3][4] It involves a pervasive pattern of intentionally making false statements with the aim to deceive others, sometimes for no clear or apparent reason, and even if the truth would be beneficial to the liar. People who engage in pathological lying often claim to be unaware of the motivations for their lies.[5][6][7][8][9]

Pathological lying
Other names
Pseudologia fantastica, mythomania, compulsive lying
Specialty
Psychiatry
In psychology and psychiatry, there is an ongoing debate about whether pathological lying should be classified as a distinct disorder or viewed as a symptom of other underlying conditions.[3][4] The lack of a widely agreed-upon description or diagnostic criteria for pathological lying has contributed to the controversy surrounding its definition.[4][7][8] But efforts have been made to establish diagnostic criteria based on research and assessment data, aligning with the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM).[10] Various theories have been proposed to explain the causes of pathological lying, including stress, an attempt to shift locus of control to an internal one, and issues related to low self-esteem.[8][6][7][9] Some researchers have suggested a biopsychosocial-developmental model to explain this concept.[11] While theories have explored potential causes, the precise factors contributing to pathological lying have yet to be determined.


Definition
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Curtis and Hart (2020) defined pathological lying as "a persistent, pervasive, and often compulsive pattern of excessive lying behavior that leads to clinically significant impairment of functioning in social, occupational, or other areas; causes marked distress; poses a risk to the self or others; and occurs for longer than 6 months" (p. 63).[10]

Characteristics
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Defining characteristics of pathological lying include:

An internal motivation for the behavior cannot be readily discerned clinically: e.g., long-lasting extortion or habitual spousal battery might cause a person to lie repeatedly, without the lying being pathological.[3]
The stories are presented in a way that portrays the liar favorably. The liar "decorates their own person"[9][12] by telling stories that present them as the hero or the victim. For example, they might be presented as being fantastically brave, as knowing or being related to many famous people, or as having great power, position, or wealth.
Some psychiatrists distinguish compulsive from pathological lying, while others consider them equivalent. Others deny the existence of compulsive lying altogether; this remains an area of considerable controversy.[7][9][13

In reply to johndom90

Mythomaniac .

....

Ah surely got em Trini wound up with crab in barrel syndrome...
they must have recognized themselves...

Keep it up folks...

In reply to bravos

Lawwwddd....I have to much down time these days . That damn Trump....

That man mek nuff lefties lose they compass...mek sick people more sick .....Mek the more sick sicker....

.....

Trump took your time away watching soaps with ya mother-in-law's basement apartment, huh?

Ohhhhhhhh awwwww so sorry.

In reply to bravos

In reply to johndom90

Some of my earlier lesser known works thanks..

....

Like a cornered rat

In reply to bravos

I like sarge
He is a cool fella and a family guy
Can debate good, but then again has his moments

But he’s a good guy

Can take picong and not get nasty

wait, so you people don't believe that stupidjones is/was
a top secret Canadian government spy?
A United Nations helicoptor pilot?
a TT army soldier?
a Barbados coast guard officer?
a petroleum engineer?
a covic vaccine equipment manufacturer?
a saffron farmer?
billionaire real estate magnate?
WHo adopted two daughters when he was a teenager?
on top of being an Ivy League star football quarterback ?
with scholarships from 5 different universities on different continents???
And now married to a 6' 4" polynesian/kiwi beauty with an Aussie father???


which one of those are not plausible??

In reply to VIX

Don’t forget he was an Alien
Owns a mil dollar house on the Niagara escarpment with a trashy basement and a deck he copied from a magazine

hey fat boy

My basement is worth more than your house. It takes years to complete, as the video below shows.
One must have knowledge in numerous fields of engineering as you do it over time.

Basement'23

Basement '24

Largest Private O scale Model Railroad layout in the USA

Building such is beyond the suspects on this thread.
Its a hobby, yours is marriages , I build model train layouts .

Jetlag , bedtime. It will take 1 day for every hour in time change to get back body rhythm

In reply to Halliwell

Dont defend moi, you will be attacked. I am not bothered by picong...

I do stuff to drive them crazy. They wait in hiding, and I fish them out.

Sad mundane lives that document me—I can write numerous books about them.
The ant boy has an exaggerative, creative, imaginative memory

Have you not noticed that when they are missing, I come up with something provocative ...out they come to attack?

It helps with their bipolar...their physicians should thank me.

I then ignore them for a few months, then post ...they haven't figured it out yet.

ta ta

In reply to sgtdjones


I had a feeling this was going to happen.

Your need for recognition is beyond obvious.

Even the people who engage you are questioning the validity of your post.

Funny thing is you claim you baiting people, then get nasty when they call you out.....why would you go off the rails if you are not bothered by picong?

If you want to call this picong, i call it disgust.

Your detachment from reality is obvious. You call for Arawak, the man who literally7 called you a low value poster.....thus setting the dogs on you.

You really think he did not understand it was going to be open season on you when he did that?

And you claim you are so enlightened.

Funny how everytime you are called out, you have a new hobby. Not too long ago i recall it being your dissertations....now it's a train set you been working on for years in your basement.

I believe at one time you claim you did charity as a hobby....

Arawak was on the verge of limiting stupidjones' low-value posts to one per week.

Now the imbecile is begging Arawak for help.

Allyuh think it easy with this little fat freak?

In reply to VIX

Who the f@ck quotes 'with shoes' when referring to someone's height ? Clearly symptoms of a manufactured story . Ok so what's her length in doggy ? And her weight in reverse-cowgirl ?

"It just don't fit, gotta quit"

......short men on the internet